Currently reanswering some of my pastime OKC questions & answers and tests as well as tossing in some new goodies.
I've stopped making an effort, merging several profiles from other sites to OkCupid. Previously I had a some links in my journal to my other profiles until I had merged them to the one on okc. Since for some reason the journal has seized to exist entirely, I did no longer bother to merge these profiles.
So in random order (follow the *'s), here's me.
*) I'm pretty direct and to the point which is also characteristic for Dutch people and Amsterdammers in general. I'm witty and have a sharp (and sometimes dark) sense of humor. Which some people who don't know me, may find blunt. I'm curious and experimental by nature, also I like to dig into subjects I'm not familiar with or don't know much about, I'm an information junkie, a total sponge.
*) I'm a polyamoric / polygamous non-monogamous, straight - openminded - Dominant. On good occasions, I sometimes, but rarely, turn to my submissive self, (just to keep in touch with reality and to be a good Dom who knows what a sub can/will take). In my opinion this absolutely doesn't make me a Switch. I know it says so in my nick, there's also another explanation. I just let it stay there because OkC doesn't want to change it to Sir-Mark-NL (my nick on Fet) and I don't feel like redoing my profile all over again - okay copy paste is deadeasy - as well as the 2000+ Q/A and 100+ tests I've done.
On OkCupid I'm primarily looking for:
polyamoric, polygamous, straight or Bi-sexual, submissive, submissive Switch women or couples (fill in or strike out your and / or here).
Mind you, this is not just another excuse, to uh just fuck around! I just can't attach myself to just one person.
Basically I'm open to almost every kink and fetish you can think off.
For me BDSM has always (since my teens) been real important part off my life. During my current relation it's been in the fridge for too long however. I have a tendency to B/D - (Bondage and Discipline) and D/s - (Domination and submission) mostly, also for you? Then hopefully we can arrange and work something out for both, or maybe more of us.
*) The past years I've worked in ICT at the Amsterdam city-council in various departments and sub-councils. Currently I work in bicicle retail. Should really be getting my ass back in the ICT-world.
*) Despite or should I say thanks to what's mentioned above, have a broad interest. (or am I just greedy)? **evil grin**