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Mark4Switch

52 M Slotervaart, Netherlands

My Details

Last Online
Jul 31
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 4″ (1.92m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Okay), Other (Poorly)

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My self-summary
**Under constant construction - a profile is never done...**
Currently reanswering some off my pastime OKC q&a and tests
as well as tossing in some new goodies.

I've stopped making an effort, merging several profiles from other sites to OkCupid. Previously I had a some links in my journal, but since I'm updating, all is erased For some reason the journal has seized to exist entirely.
So in random order (follow the *'s), here's me.

*) I'm pretty direct and to the point which is also characteristic for Amsterdammers. I'm witty and have a sharp (and sometimes dark) sense of humor. Which some people who don't know me, may find blunt. I'm curious and experimental by nature, also I like to dig into subjects, I'm not familiar with or don't know much about, I'm an information junkie, a total sponge.

*) I'm a polyamoric / polygamous non-monogamous, straight - openminded - Dominant. On good occasions, I sometimes turn to my submissive self, (just to keep in touch with reality and to be a good Dom who knows what a sub can/will take). In my opinion this doesn't necessarily make me a Switch. ( I know it says so in my nick. I just let it stay there because OkC doesn't want to change it to Sir-Mark-NL (my nick on fl) and I don't feel like redoing my profile all over again as well as the 2000+ Q/A and 100+ tests I've done).
On OkCupid I'm primarily looking for:
polyamoric/polygamous, straight or Bi-sexual, submissive, submissive Switch women/couples (fill in/strike out your and/or here).
(Mind you, this is not just another excuse, to uh just fuck around)! I just can't attach myself to just one person.
Basically I'm open to almost every kink and fetish you can think off.
For me BDSM has always (since my teens) been real important part off my life. During my current relation it's been in the fridge for too long however. I have a tendency to B/D (Bondage and Discipline) and D/s Domination and submission) mostly, also for you? Then hopefully we can arrange and work something out for both, or maybe more of us.

*) The past years I've worked in ICT at a local city-council in various departments. Currently I work in bicicle retail. Should really be getting my ass back in the ICT-world.

*) Despite or should I say thanks to what's mentioned above, have a broad interest. (or am I just greedy)? **evil grin**
What I’m doing with my life
*) Just check back regular and find out what I've updated.

*) (On OKC:) For now I'm boosting the number of questions I answer. I try to do something like 10 or 20 each time, as well as maybe 1 or 2 tests. The outcome may seem a little questionable/disputable, but then again that leaves a lot to talk/discuss/ask(ax)? about.
When I've got Wi-Fi access I'm also using the OkC android-app. Mainly for browsing profiles.
Early 2011 OkC invited me to mod, which I accepted. I'm not really harsh, but please don't blame me or others.
*) Figuring out how to combine Polyamory with BDSM as a Dom and vice-versa. I wonder how/why I connect with women that are either Polyamourous or submissive into BDSM, but hardly ever I connect with a Polyamourous sub.
*) (privately) The past years have been a bit of a mess. But now I've dotted my i's and crossed my t's........ and I'm satisfied with the turnover.

*) (work) The past years I've worked in ICT at the Amsterdam city-council in various departments and subcouncils.
Currently I'm working in bicycle retail.
I’m really good at
Being myself. But definitely not meaning egoistic or egocentric! (OK sometimes, but thats only human). And most of all getting things done the way I want it!
The first things people usually notice about me
A tall guy with wild black hair (except during the spring/summer months). People always assume I'm Mediterranean, but I'm not. Generally I'm witty guy with a sharp sense of humor which can be almost sarcastic. Sadly it's often mistaken for being blunt. Also I'm known for spreading my unsalted opinion and or critique.
But you should rather ask them not me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorites
Writers: Carl May, Jules Verne ...
Books: The two next to my alarm, both in Dutch translation: the autographed Roger Moore autobiography My Word Is My Bond (Voor altijd James Bond) and the Rolling Stones bio Blown Away (Flirten met de duivel).
Not movies but genres, directors and actors:
Genres: 007, Generally all Sci-Fi especially Star-Trek (all), cult-classics, horror, thriller and the occasional mindless stuff to fill in the gap stuff...
I volunteer at the Imagine Amsterdam Fantastic FilmFestival (ImagineAFFF), and visit the Night of Terror and the Halloween Horror Night. Do you get a general idea about which films I like?
If you're good in reading between the lines: the Punishment of Anne, Eyes wide shut, the Secretary, Histoire d'O, de SM rechter. Just to name a few.
Directors: Pedro Almandovar, Moreno Argentin, Roger Corman, George A. Romero, Quintin Tarentino, Lloyd Kaufmann ...
Actors: Sean Connery, Dustin Hoffman, Roger Moore, Al Pacino, ...
TV: DWDD, CSI(all), NCIS(both), Vampire Diaries, Supernatural, German Krimi's ...
Music: Almost everything that the ear can take. But on my iPod is a selection off: Doors, Golden Earing, Rolling Stones, early70's glamrock, late70's punk, and much more up-to next year :) ...
Food: both cooking and eating it off-course
Dutch delicacies like zoute drop and Hollandse Nieuwe
Mediterranean
Oriental
Brazilian style BBQ

Obviously the ...'s are gaps that need further filling out or explanation.
The six things I could never do without
1. you
2. Ropes
3. My sport
4. The obvious things that will keep anyone alive
5. beeeeeeeep
6. beeeeeeeep

No just kidding, I will let you know when I've narrowed it down to six. Like I said before I've got a broad interest (and several needs I really can't do without).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can fill this essay with words that also make some sense. (If you feel like it: Just apply corrections where/whenever), or drop a line in my inbox.
Getting things done the way I want it.
Confused about:
Lately I've been getting guys in my activity feed/speed match. As I'm really only looking for women and not for guys, I suppose these blokes are just plain stupid. Example: (bloke-x 29/F/straight).
On a typical Friday night I am
Putting my feet to rest and making plans on what to do in the weekend ...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I still use my analog SLR aside my digital one and Ipod Clickwheel. Several other things are under consideration of being put on the Internet, but I just might tell you in IRL or OkC-chat, but at least one of them should actually be stated in the part: "things I could never do without". I'm an open(minded) book really.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
*) You generally like my profile ...
*) Your Friend and or Match is +70% ... (or so)
*) Your enemy is -25% ... (or so)
*) You think we match up in any other case ...
*) You think I'd really be doing that fun test you've just done ...
*) You're into (all) kinds of kinky and fetish stuff ...
*) You're into BDSM (I'm a Dominant) ...
*) You've got a profile on FL and/or CM ...
*) You're outside my search-range (above) but you feel you're not ... (Just ignore the fact OkCupid warns you).
*) You just feel like knocking on my in-box!
*) I've forgotten something! Don't really know, just ask or ax me ...
*) Oh Just in-case I made some stupid typo and you feel an urge to correct it. JUST DO IT!