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Marla_Devyne

36 / M / bisexual / Single

Portland, Oregon

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am adventurous, spontaneous, and open minded.

My Self-Summary

I am a fairly androgynous creature, and I dress to express whatever sex I'm feeling at the moment. I'm looking for lovers, people to play with (outdoors, BDSM, dancing, etc.), and friends. I am currently exploring new avenues of myself, my interests and desires, my kinks, and my sexuality and do not want to limit my ability to explore. Therefore, I am not looking for anything monogamous at the moment.

I like people who are intelligent, open minded, and willing to try new things as well as teach me new things. I tend to do better with people who are more extroverted or aggressive about what they want as I can be somewhat shy at first, although I am borderline extrovert/introvert. Overly aggressive people can be somewhat off putting however.

I like to travel when I can and I like to be as active as possible. That doesn't mean that I don't also like to relax and take it easy, of course . I frequently like to enjoy a nice scotch, wine, or beer, a good book, and a fire or perhaps a movie while cuddling.

What I’m doing with my life

I have recently graduated with a BS in environmental science with a focus on zoology and I am seeking steady employment in my field whilst taking on odd jobs to pay the bills. I would love to get a job doing field research studying animal interactions with their environments with a focus towards conservation and restoration. It would be especially great if it were a job studying big cats :)

I am looking for new adventures.

Learning, I love learning new things.
My current set of skills I am developing are: crocheting, fire dancing/breathing/eating, sewing, playing guitar, dancing better and moving my hips in heels, fantasy style makeup, jewelry making, gardening...

I’m really good at

foot rubs, neck rubs, hiking, fixing things, figuring out how things work, dancing, cooking, climbing, sex, saying the right thing at the wrong moment...

The first things people usually notice about me

My energy, my legs, my sense of dark mischief, and my sexy with an edge smile.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

This could be a long list that takes a while to complete.

I love a good book and mostly read sci-fi, fantasy, and science/nature related books. I also read political and other non-fiction more of my own volition now that I am out of school. Some of my favorite authors are Tad Williams, Clive Barker, Neil Gaiman, E. O. Wilson, Laurel K. Hamilton, Jane Goodall, Frank Herbert, JK Rowling...

Favorite movies (I'm sure I'll miss some and have to add them later): Legend, Labyrinth, Closet Land, Watership Down, anything from Tim Burton, Lord of the Rings series, Batman Begins, Pan's Labyrinth, Nature movies...especially with David Attenborough narrating, Chocolate, City of Lost Children, Bladerunner, Princess Bride, Serenity.....

Music: I love most kinds of music and my favorites shift with my moods. I don't like misogynist rap, most newer country, or acid jazz.

Food: This is also a matter of my moods as far as my favorites go, I like to explore new foods and love to cook. I don't like bland foods. Spices spices spices...

The six things I could never do without

Good friends, good literature, animals, good food, clean air, and water.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The world and our role in it, craft projects, art projects, traveling, sex, nature, science, societal structures, gender roles, ......

On a typical Friday night I am

Out dancing, heading to the coast or the woods, or having a beer and a good conversation with friends, but always open to suggestions.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm a very sensual person.
I like the feel of silky things on freshly shaven skin.
I like big buts and I cannot lie.... >:D (Actually I like all kinds of buts but I couldn't resist the chance to slip in an 80's earworm)

You should message me if

You are intelligent, open minded, adventurous, fairly healthy (physiologically and psychologically) (also not referring to weight), can hold a good conversation (i.e. can ask questions as well as answer them), like being a top or a switch, like being kinky, and like to have fun.

Also if you are just looking for friends, or are poly amorous (non monogamy, friends with benefits), or you are ok with not so serious dating.