i'm not so good at writing these kinds of things. a lot of this article was put into words with my partner darkdaughta's assistance. we've been together for about five years. i think they're awesome. they're they're the love of my life. feel free to GO HAVE A LOOK AT THEIR PROFILE because you may be meeting them at some point. :)
we're kinksters who are both on fetlife. we both define as queer switches. we're also poly. for me this means obviously my relationship with them trumps everything else I'm doing with anyone else. i expect folks i sleep with to be able to play nice with my partner because without darkdaughta's support i wouldn't be meeting or getting naked with anyone i meet here.
i am a big tramp. i'd like to explore sleeping with lots of different kinds of people. i guess this makes me more of a polyfucker than actually interested in having an ongoing polyamorous relationship with you. i don't want to fall in love with you. i guess you could say i'm interested in casual hedonism.
monogamy and relationship aren't what i'm looking for from anyone i meet here on okc. if you want a relationship, you should probably stop reading now because if you try to get this with me you will just upset yourself.
i'm very active and I like to do lots of fun spontaneous things with different people who are fun and like to cuddle and have no strings attached sex. if this is you and you think you could have some light fun with me, then read on.
i am interested in queer men, women, trans, gender fluid, and genderqueer people however they identify.
i'm a twenty-seven year old, biracial, queer, slutty, perverse, poly-friendly, completely flaky, giggly, cuddly, wiry, tall, athletic, tree climbing, gentle, martial arts obsessed, fire spinning, friendly, smarty pants, pot head, cheap beer drinker, photographer, strange object collector/hoarder, enigma who really likes to sleep for hours on end... and who has at different times in recent years tried to make effort to understand more about how my mind and emotions work and how they impact the people who know me.
i'm very much in my body. i'm very sensual and really enjoy cuddling and sex... lots of sex.
i quite enjoy giving massages.
sometimes i'm dressed in a skirt with my hair styled by my partner who also styles my clothes/look. sometimes i'm flying through the air hacking at someone with a sword. sometimes i'm dressed like a military street punk, and sometimes i'm super flaming.
you should know that although i pass for white, i'm not at all. my partner is visibly black as well as being queer and genderqueer. it's probably a good idea for folks who want to be friends with either or both of us in the long term to not be actively racist.
i also can come across as pretty damned straight and neuro typical even though i'm not either of these. i not ashamed of anyone knowing. i'm not in the closet about who i am.
but honestly? don't try too hard to categorize me or understand me. you will not succeed and you will make yourself crazy trying to. :)
i am shy, sensual, perverse, quirky and evolving