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56 Providence, RI Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 54–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:53pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a Libran with exceptions: I intuit someone's personality easily, connect quickly or not at all, and love deeply and expressively.

I’m not ordinary and neither are you. We’re both accomplished and educated. I love to read, learn, share ideas, travel, try new activities, both cerebral and physical. I love museums, would love to learn golf, tennis, skydiving, flying a plane, mixed martial arts, fencing, a new language or playing drums. I eat healthfully and expect to live another 70 or 80 or 100 years. I love swimming in crystal clear water. I like to throw down a blanket and watch the stars cross the heavens while wrapped in your arms. I am light-hearted and quite affectionate...all the time. I never have a bad day, and I’m extremely resilient. I’m a bit precocious.

I guarantee you will NEVER be embarrassed or bored with me at your side. I am passionate, accomplished, confident, secure, self-possessed, refined, feminine, educated, intelligent, intuitive, articulate, highly communicative, very kind, adventurous, fearless, logical, rational, lead by my heart and very sensual. I want a mate who is just as self-assured and confident.

I do not know shame or humiliation, I live in the present and future, laugh at and dismiss failures and mistakes of the past, both yours and mine. I view every day as an adventure and expect amazing things to occur often...and they do. I forgive and forget easily. I am deeply spiritual, but not religious. I know we are all connected in every way, all of us, everything, always, past and future. We are a soul in a body; we will endure even after the body does not. You and I will find each other, life after life. My life is painted with broad strokes and rich colors and you understand that.

I'm looking for my greatest love, or perhaps first real love: You are 6’ or taller, very intelligent, educated, accomplished and therefore successful... you’re quite confident & dominant, yet not arrogant, positive and happy, refined, kind and considerate, intriguing, a dedicated mate ruled by your passions.

You are a good dresser; clothes make the man. You respect my boundaries, are driven to possess me in mind, body and spirit. You’re well read and informed, highly communicative and intellectual. You are 100% monogamous, you've never had an extra-marital affair and never would even consider it because your integrity is strongly intact. You suspend social protocol and ask me everything you want to know about me, because you understand that I am strong enough to say no when I don’t want to share...and you’re okay with that. You order dinner for me because I trust your judgment and you know what I like...and you always, always open doors. You will be my best friend and will admire me as much as I admire you. We'll be relieved when we finally find each other, because the search has been too long and exhausting.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being an adventurer...exploring...looking people in the eyes and saying hello as we pass...that's hard for a lot of people, most people, to do...understanding that life is magic. Knowing that to love and be loved is the purpose of Life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solving issues...loving openly and wholeheartedly...kissing you, holding hands. :) Yep, you didn't know that was a skill? Really? lol
The first things people usually notice about me
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More than once, complete strangers have said I seem very current ultra short and ultra blond compassion is certainly evident. My joie de passion for life...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read and learn, to be exposed to new information and thoughts...Time, Newsweek, a woman's mag, Readers Digest, the daily paper, online headlines and news; I'm not at all a news junkie, just like to have a good basic idea of what is occurring in the world and like to stay get the idea...Favorite all time book: Rules of Perspective. Could make a grown man cry...check it out...and I have hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of books waiting for a huge bookshelf to contain them...

Movies: Silver Linings Playbook, To Kill a Mockingbird, 12 Angry Men, The Others..I never watch scary, but this was a loved it!

I watch very little tv, but enjoy anything interesting like documentaries, science, history...I enjoy comedies: The Office, Parks and Recreation, SNL. I also enjoy historical fiction and drama...not into sci-fi or scary at all...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, my best friend/mate, my children, books, crystal clear water on a sweltering summer day, passion: about life, about something, anything, because without passion there is little purpose in life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Not much, to be honest. I am very laid back, relaxed, and don't really worry about anything. It all just kind of flows in life, actually. I am wondering how much longer I'll be on this search for my missing best friend...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...ready to go somewhere, do something, anything...make dinner at home, rent a movie, go out exploring.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love a well-dressed man, it's an absolute turn-on. That's why guys in uniforms get all the women; it's not the guy, it's something about the
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Only the most confident and secure men will be compelled to contact me...that's the way I want it to be... are capable of loving deeply and passionately, want a best friend/lover/mate that you could count on until the end of time, are intelligent and can talk about a wide array of topics, and want the same in a mate.