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56 F Washington, DC

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 54–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

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Today – 12:44pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Here’s me, and if you understand what I’ve written, or don’t understand but find me intriguing and somehow arousing, send a note.

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" My sentiments exactly!

I’m not ordinary and neither are you. We’re both accomplished and educated; I’m currently working toward finishing my law degree. We both have a sense of humor, believe that Life has purpose and things happen for a reason. We both like to read, but do all kinds of other activities also. You understand that my life is very serendipitous, painted with broad strokes and rich colors. I know that most people don’t have a life as amazing as mine, and I respect that. But you respect that my life is nearly magical; it really is that amazing.

I intend to live another 70 or 80 or hundred years, so I eat healthfully and I love physical activity. But when I need a small bag of Fritos, an apple isn’t going to work. If you want to see me in a gown, feel free to take me shopping...and my goal will be to find some long sleek black silky thing that makes teenage boys blush and old men wish they were 50 and rich! In normal circumstances, I dress for the occasion, clean lines, simple attire. In winter, I like to wear tight black pants with soft silk blouses, jewelry and high heels. I enjoy setting the standard, which, in this world full of mediocrity, can confuse. I don’t do anything EVER for the purpose of drawing attention to myself; I do what I want to do, with an emphasis on kindness and respect.

I guarantee you will NEVER be embarrassed or bored with me at your side. I love cerebral activities mostly because I’m as lazy as possible, but I will try golf, tennis, flying a plane, mixed martial arts, rowing, swimming, hiking, walking, or whatever you are interested in trying. I'm not competitive. I'm quite confident and secure.

I’m cool in a crisis, will walk in and take control while others run out. I am fearless. I am very intelligent and have a complex mind, yet have a refreshingly unfettered personality, always happy, positive, and endowed with an inherent certainty that I am here for a purpose...and I am living up to that responsibility. I am refined and look for that in you.
I love meandering through cool darkened museums on a hot Summer day, floating in some lake while the water caresses my skin and the sun kisses my eyelids...I love throwing down a blanket and pillow in your backyard and watching the stars cross the sky. I love kissing and feeling the normal and natural reaction from you, that has been beaten down and filtered out of you for so long that you forget it’s okay to feel that way and I don’t care if it’s obvious. My superpower is that I know men spend a lot of time thinking about sex...and I’ll do my best to tease you mercilessly with my appearance and innuendo when we meet. I love, more than anything in the history of ever, to be touched, kissed, hold hands, make out...But don’t think you’ve scored any victories with me because of that; my admiration, respect, and love have to be earned just as yours does. And my clothes haven’t ever just slid off because a guy ran his lips down across my neck...
90% of what I need to know about you will be shown by how you respond when a slow driver is in the pass lane.

I want to love very deeply, and I’m not afraid to experience all that goes with that. Neither you nor I do anything halfway. You’re not crazy, you’re accomplished and very intelligent. And if you’re 6’ or taller, I find that to be an extra attraction. You’re not intimidated. Ever. You laughed through most of what I wrote and your mind went blank for a few seconds when I referenced sex.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being an adventurer...exploring...looking people in the eyes and saying hello as we pass...that's a lot harder to do with all strangers than you think it is...understanding that life is magic. Knowing that to love and be loved is the purpose of Life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solving issues...loving openly and wholeheartedly...being passionate, kissing you, holding hands. :) Yep, you didn't know that was a skill? Really? lol
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My intensity??? Nah... lol
If you're a guy on this site, you checked out my body parts...thank heavens...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read and learn, to be exposed to new information and thoughts...Time, Newsweek, a woman's mag, Readers Digest, the daily paper, online headlines and news; I'm not at all a news junkie, just like to have a good basic idea of what is occurring in the world and like to stay get the idea...Favorite all time book: Rules of Perspective. Could make a grown man cry...check it out...

Movies: Silver Linings Playbook, To Kill a Mockingbird, 12 Angry Men, The Others..I never watch scary, but this was a loved it!

I watch almost no tv, but I have watched The Office, Parks and Recreation, SNL, mostly on the computer now...I enjoy comedies. I rent DVDs and like comedies and drama, really also enjoy historical fiction and drama...not into sci-fi or scary at all...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, my best friend/mate, my children, books, crystal clear water on a sweltering summer day, passion: about life, about something, anything, because without passion there is little purpose in life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to resolve that issue, when the heck I'm going to find THAT guy that totally excites me...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who cares...if we were all that busy and ever so cool, would we be on here? I think not.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love a well-dressed man, it's an absolute turn-on. That's why guys in uniforms get all the women; it's not the guy, it's something about the
You should message me if
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You read all the way through to this part...because if you did, you're probably pretty awesome in several ways...only the most confident and secure men will be compelled to contact me...that's the way I want it to be... are capable of loving deeply and passionately, want a best friend/lover/mate that you could count on until the end of time, are intelligent and can talk about a wide array of topics, and want the same in a mate.