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63 M Frederick, MD

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French, Spanish

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My self-summary
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"Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere.
They’re in each other all along." (Rumi)

"Your task is not to seek for Love, but to seek and find all the barriers that you have built within yourself, against it".......

I strive every day to live by the mantra above in the hopes that timing and opportunity will lead me and a compatible feminine counterpart who is working toward the same goal to meet along our life's path to create something even more special that we have now!..........

Having said that ..........

Me?...........I have a great job, no children at home (but luv kids), am in healthy shape, not too bad looking, love to cook (Yes, I'm very good at it). I do have a car and own my own home and yes, I own power tools and know how to use them.....;-) ............What more would an active, intelligent, lovely woman want?

Yes, I am nigh on 60 yrs old, have lived a storied & blessed life, of which most people would never have the chance to lead. I've crammed in 3 lives already into this one and I am working on cramming in a couple more before I take leave of this planet. Like many, I find that I am a better being when I have a female mate to balance out life's Yin and Yang ........I embrace everything that goes along with having a loving relationship. I don't take myself too seriously and I do understand that the world is filled with diverse thinkers and doers and life would be boring without them.........I have enjoyed success, and have embraced my failures, I have learned how to savor the fruits of the journey and want to find someone who is of like mind's as simple as that. The rest is cream in the puff as they say ................;-)

I have a joyous heart and am loyal and generous to those I love. I possess a fun-loving sense of humor and I believe that laughter is paramount to having an excellent disposition and health! I like to entertain and am always up for a get-together with family or friends. I am blessed to have an amazing group of friends who know they can rely on me if they need me and vice-versa. I come from a close knit Eastern Shore of MD hard working family. My parents have been married for over 66 years and are still truly best friends and partners who reared me to have a sense of spirituality, faith and self worth and to be honorable, honest and forthright in all endeavors.

I am looking to find someone who is genuine, honorable, and loving. Who has a sense of adventure, a sense of humor and is comfortable with her own sexuality and sensuality. Great communication is really important and will make or break any relationship.

It would be nice to share that rare ability to communicate on a higher level, share intimate and playful affection. Someone who does have a great sense of humor and a good work ethic, who is self-confident and pleased with the choices she has made in her life.

She gets that being interested makes her interesting. She loves to skip town some weekends to explore new places but also loves to hang out watching sports, or a great movie on a Sunday with good friends or just laze around reading a good book by the fire on a rainy day. She is spontaneous, affectionate, romantic and dependable. Most of all, I endeavor to connect with someone who is spontaneous and wants to share her gusto for living with someone who is just as enthusiastic about life as well.

"I don't know any perfect people, only really flawed people who are still worth loving".............take-ten Zen

~~NOTE: I have been asked if the paintings in my profile are my work? YES they are.............
What I’m doing with my life
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I try to live passionately every day.....Working on painting various works of art that I show and sell.....I'm attempting to perfect my skill with French sauces.........French sauces are the base for great cooking............and attempt those hard to hold Tai Chi positions, ........That Crane thing is killing me .......! I wanted to be James Bond but I had to settle as a Well-Simmered Daniel Craig look-a-like !
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, art, & music,.....My culinary skills, I love to cook. I play a mean guitar and I adore light-hearted brevity and good humor. Oh yeah, ...........I do me pretty well.

Maybe my life's motto might strike a synaptical chord within you: "A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, love well, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects." ; Robert Heinlin.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My happy demeanor, fun-loving, outgoing Personality. My zest for living............People tell me I have great hands and I could have been a professional masseuse or Reflexologist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books? Anything by Ken Follet, Ernest Hemingway, Herman Hesse, Sun Tzu's: The Art of War, Robert Heinlein; The Song of Lazarus Long, Any great writer who penned genius by suffering depression and alcoholism throughout their writing life while being haunted by the demons of their own creative genius..........

“No storyteller has ever been able to dream up anything as fantastically unlikely as what really does happen in real life in this mad Universe.”.........R. Heinlein

Music ? Euphoria, Shawn Colvin, Sarah McLaughlin, Trey Anastasio, Marc Cohn, Andrea Bocelli.......... A great Springsteen or Dave Matthews concert, it don't get any better than that!

Movies? Casablanca, of course, ......I like all the great action adventures from Star Wars to Indiana Jones, Lawrence of Arabia, old Humphrey Bogart and Errol Flynn movies .........I'm totally enthralled with Game of Thrones, Love it!! I was a Euro -knight in a another life, hacking at windmills and rescuing damsels in distress...........seriously!!!. Deadwood, Hell on Wheels, love the writing and the expansive scenery.......Lord of the Rings of which I read the trilogies before they became ultra-cool. (I find it humorous how such Biblic personifications reach so many people once mirrored into a totally nother' overly commercialized stylized realm.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A great kiss, A great Martini, A great bottle of wine, My moral compass, a good flashlight, a musical instrument, and a Swiss Army Knife..........Oops was the 6 or 7? Oh darn, there I go breaking the rules again...........;-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can leave this world a better place than whence I came! I've raised 2 wonderful step-daughters to masters and doctorates degrees, built and managed successful businesses, traveled the globe........ so what to conquer next is on my mind .............How about a little help with what mountain to climb next eh prospective companion? ....................
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out on some adventure, kibbitzing with friends or acquaintances........Cooking something savory, having dinner out, enjoying good music or a movie,......Searching for the perfect Martini ............
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once dropped a Greatful Dead T-shirt with my signature, a cassette tape of GD and a private note written on it out of a Danish Helicopter right onto the North Pole .........Maybe someday aliens will find, read and listen to the tape in bewilderment and understand what it is to: Rock n' Roll..........
You should message me if
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You like feisty conversation and I have piqued your interest. Send me a note, I won't bite............Le Dolce Viva, Amore Mio!!!

“Integrity is telling myself the truth. And honesty is telling the truth to other people.” ~Spencer Johnson