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32 Columbus, OH Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:36pm
Black, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Christianity, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I am an artist- more specifically a poet. I am typically attracted to other creative types.
I have lived in Columbus my whole life. I day dream about moving but roots take time to dig up and I kind of adore my apartment in a big way.
I am not entirely nerdy but I have a soft spot for nerds due to being raised by nerd parents. I guess I am a nerd sympathizer? lol
What I’m doing with my life
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Working my cubicle job because... health insurance and student loans.
Writing poems.
Performing poems.
Wishing I could tour more.
Traveling whenever I can get the time off and a plane ticket.

I swim 4 days a week after work, sometimes I consider saying "fuck it" and becoming a mermaid.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thrift Shopping, Being Barefoot, Making know the basic survival skills
The first things people usually notice about me
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if you've noticed're already dead*. #Ninja

Not really...I'm way too clumsy to be a ninja.
Usually its the fat. I am fat. The M Night Twist is that I dont have low self esteem so don't come at me like I should be grateful you pushed YOUR body issues aside long enough to send me a dirty message or whatever other random degrading fat girl nonsense you picked up from reddit or society or wherever people are picking up their dumb these days.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite book ever is The God of Small Things. I typically have at least 1 collection of poems in my bag at all times.

Tv: The Wire, Scrubs, American Horror Story, Luther, Sherlock, Breaking Bad, Bob's Burgers

Movies: Any of the Muppet Movies, The Color Purple, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Amelie, Kill Bill, any Herzog Documentaries

My music tastes vary pretty widely. Right now I will admit to being on a Beyonce kick. I listen to more audiobooks and podcasts than anything. I am a big This American Life fan.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cellphone, notebook, good pens, lots of pillows, my cat, and at least one collection of poetry to read
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm a writer. Even when I am not physically writing...I am writing or editing in my head.
I think a lot about what I might have to do to make my living as a poet instead of a cubicle dweller.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually netflixing. I am kind of a homebody but trying to break out of that some.
Wanna help?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't actually identify as Bi (nothing against anyone who does though-identify however you are comfortable). I don't quite feel like my identity is at home in the term Pansexual either...I am sort of just queer. I am attracted to people that make me laugh, people that make me feel safe, people that can answer when asked "where do you want to go for dinner?". Decisiveness is foxy.


That I have a sort of unreasonable loathing for Polo shirts. I just don't think there is a more uninspired article of clothing in existence.
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