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33 M Waltham, MA

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My Details

Last Online
Sep 11
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Dislikes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a 30 year old chap, recently finished a PhD, living outside of Boston (hopefully soon to be some nebulous & deep forest) with my girlfriend. I'm an ontological to discussing anything from sports, to music, to art, to sexuality, to philosophy, to film, etc. Throw me a message if you're interested in chatting....

I have more pics & what not as well.....but I like the veil of anonymity that one is provided from time to time. With who I choose, I have no need for anonymity....but otherwise the shadows are delightful...

*I have recently reached a level of disgust & irritation with the steady stream of 'grammarians' roaming about this site. It is remarkably simple to grasp the following:

1. Grammar is in actuality an arbitrary construct in which the possibilities of Language & language(s) are oppressively interiorized & fixed, primarily so that States/'Nations' could maximize productivity (at the cost of the creative energy whose progeny is 'Language').

2. Functional, normative conversational English has a plethora of grammatically acceptable contractions. This is ostensibly due to the non-necessity &/or negligible-importance of pure 'Formal' language, at all times. If there are vestigial remains of the relatively-recently-imposed (in the known-history of languages) necessity of Formal diction & discourse, it remains specifically in the written word, & certainly not in conversational English. When 'chatting' online, one is entering a sphere of written language whose function, explicitly, is one of conversation, regardless of its mediation through 'writing' as such. Thus, if someone in an 'IM' conversation writes 'convo' or 'ur' instead of 'you're,''you are,' &/or 'your' or 'btw' instead of 'by the way' or 'lol' instead of 'that comment made me chuckle &/or laugh physiologically' or any other myriad of possibilities, it operates as a functional use of contractions within conversational English, not as some arbitrary signifier of intelligence.

Its just pretentious, obnoxious bullshit, frankly, & indicative of either disturbingly reductive thought, or self-inflated importance. Get over yourselves.

I am not interested, in self summation, & reductionism
What I’m doing with my life
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reading, writing (fiction & philosophy), watching film, random road trips through back-country, impulsiveness, compulsivity...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
debating (any topic, particularly one i am actually passionate about), writing (according to some...i, however, am more critical...), follando (for the Gallegos in the crowd, haha), exploring other conceptual dimensions (an ambivalent talent, i can assure you...), challenging orthodoxy, (re)conceptualizing normative film & literary narratives (a lot more fun than it may sound), etc.

by the way, this song is spectacular....

*i don't know if i'm 'really good at' limericks.....but goddamn i love writing them...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
apparently my eyes...? or smile?

who knows such things.

*since growing my hair out (3 years on Halloween)--I had never grown it out in my life, & had in fact shaved it consistently for almost 13 years--I'd say also probably the curly locks (a 'follicular'-filamentous shock even to my own mother)...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books (authors): Antonin Artaud, Gilles Deleuze, Felix Guattari, Hunter S. Thompson, J.G. Ballard (particularly 'Crash'), Federico Garcia Lorca, Jean Genet, Paul Celan, Hakim Bey, Foucault, Kathy Acker, Valle-Inclan, Agamben, Brian Evenson, the avant-garde in general & much, much more...

movies: I'm a film buff, but some favorites are Alejandro Jodorowsky, David Lynch, Michael Haneke, Stanley Kubrick, Martin Scorsese, Akira Kurosawa, Andrei Tarkovsky, Pedro Almodovar, early Cronenberg (a la 'Scanners', 'Videodrome' & the like), Aronofsky, yadda yadda yadda...there is just so much film that I adore, I could talk about it for hours....

music: Catherine Ribeiro, Can, Anouar Brahem, Serge Gainsbourg, Nina Simone, Os Mutantes, Radiohead, Talking Heads, Diamanda Galas, Bjork, El Turronero, Camaron de la Isla & flamenco in general (brilliant music), Godspeed You! Black Emperor, Kiyohiko Senba & His Haniwa All-Stars, Anthony Rother, The Shadows of Knight, The Mystic Knights of the Oingo Boingo, Angelo Badalamenti, Spinal Tap, Blonde Redhead, Kulu Hatha Mamnua, Johnny Cash, Lucinda Williams, Joanna Newsom, John Lennon (my brother's song at his wedding was 'Oh Yoko!'--best choice ever, as far as I'm concerned), Espers, Mulatu Astatqé, Cat Stevens, minimal electronic music....seriously, so good & so just fills the soul with party-sensibilities, Cuban son a la Cándido Fabré, Julie Ruin, Wire, Elza Soares & samba, Viktor Vaughn, Philip Glass, Bo Diddley, Jean-Claude Vannier, Van Morrison, Tupac, MF Doom, Amon Tobin, Joy Division, Julee Cruise, Gary Numan, Kate Bush, Opgezwolle]] (Dutch hip-hop, Dave Brubeck, The Kinks, The Beatles, Faust, Neu!, Siouxsie & the Banshees, Femi Kuti, Brian Eno, David Bowie, Bach (all of it really, but recently Gould's two versions of The Goldberg Variations as well as The Art of Fugue), Beethoven, Mozart (especially his operas), Arvo Pärt, Jussi Björling, Vitali's Chaconne in G Minor, Antony & the Johnsons, El-P, Massive Attack, Portishead, Tricky, Madvillain, David Guetta, Amon Düül II, Iggy Pop & the Stooges, Iannis Xenakis, Nick Drake, The Smiths, Bob Marley, Blind Melon, Cocteau Twins, Company Flow, Public Enemy, Philip Glass, Parliament Funkadelic, the song "Camel Walk" by Southern Culture on the Skids, Sly & the Family Stone, Sleater-Kinney, Bikini Kill, Hank Williams, Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds, Wim Mertens, blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

*this song is gorgeous...

**i've gotten ridiculously into opera...overwhelmingly good, particularly the pieces 'Una furtiva lagrima,' 'Nessun Dorma,' 'Libiamo Ne' Lieti Calici' & 'Un di felice'...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.

This question..... Eh.

Doesn't do it for me.

But i really love seltzer & chapstick.....a lot. I also personally believe that baby wipes should take over & become the norm. To quote the great Dr. John Harvey Kellogg in 'The Road to Wellville': "Cleanliness is next to Godliness..."

Then again, he also said "An erection is a flagpole on your grave" & "My own stools, Sir, are gigantic...& have no more odor than a hot biscuit."

hmm....methinks perhaps a (re)conceptualization of this whole flight of thought is in order...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to infuse the banal, quotidian & static conceptualizations of life & reality with the infinite emancipatory possibilities of chaotic magical dynamism

" like muuuuuuch much!"

i've also been wondering why it is apparently so difficult for people to realize what an utterly jingoistic, proto-fascistic, dull piece of shit '300' is....

*& recently, whether Magnum P.I. or Murder She Wrote has more zealously unrepentant absurdity...

**if you don't find this funny, i feel bad for you:

***how come so many people prefer Enrico Caruso to Jussi Björling, or how my close friend could proclaim Caruso to have more duende than Björling...

****who the greatest Sumo practioner of all-time may be....Raiden Tameemon perhaps?

*****why horror films are profoundly underrated from a critical, intellectual &/or philosophical perspective...

******why ostensibly intelligent &/or knowledgeable people still find 'The Daily Show' politically &/or politico-philosophically interesting...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
physiologically altered & having a good time at it, you suckas....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This is among the most beautiful & heartbreaking things I have ever seen....
You should message me if
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You can look beyond the inherent minimalism of a profile, & have an interest in discussing anything from Guattarian molecular revolutions to the significance of Can in the Krautrock movement to who the best welterweight boxer in the world is today...

Or if you'd like to hang out with my girlfriend & I...

I am wide ranging. Try me out.

Also, if you recognize that both Saint Olaf & Mypos function as a bolo....

or, of course, you know that Rosebud Frozen Peas are full of country goodness & green peaness. Wait, that's terrible.....I quit.