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50 Dallas, TX Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:15am
Relationship Type
5' 2" (1.57m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I guess I need to add this disclosure to the top of my profile: I am happily married and we are open. You may now continue reading the rest of my profile.

I'm a pretty simple person who enjoys wine, the Arts, great food, great conversation and travel....although I haven't done much lately.

Ok. That's not true. I'm not a simple person. I'm convoluted and complicated as hell. And I live an AMAZING life that is extremely well balanced.

I know what I want and more importantly, I know what I don't want....but you won't see a list of things to NOT be to get my attention. I try to live a very positive life. I'm old enough to have made my major mistakes (I hope) and young enough to still enjoy living the alternative life style that I do.

I am rather involved in the local Burning Man community and I'm finding that this part of my life is what most people are finding difficult to accept as opposed to my open life style- which is pretty funny to me.

In the spirit of transparency from the get-go, I do need to disclose that I am involved an open relationship with a wonderful man. My primary partner & husband is PoisonKitty So, if a traditional relationship is your goal, I'm probably not the girl for you. Also, save me your judgment on open or poly relationships. I don't believe in monogamy. If you do, good for you.

What I am Looking For
I'm married to a vegan and I am a foodie. It would be nice to have an omnivore friend to try out different restaurants that have no vegan offerings.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am exploring alternative life styles these days. I am involved in the local Burning Man community and love it!

I have to choose from 16 social events on any given weekend night. I'm usually planning a costume or running around the city in said costume having an absolute blast with a few hundred of our friends. I'm out doing something artistically inspired or with an alternative tilt.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Planning. I am all about planning social extravaganzas.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That they usually can't hear me when I speak and when they DO hear me, I'm very direct.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love anything by Anne Rice...until this latest Lestat book.
Godfather, Amadeus, Old School, Holy Grail
Very varied taste in music...anything from Louis Armstrong to NIN to Peaches.
I love trying new food and finding new restaurants.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Unfortunately, through tragic events--like a house fire --I've learned that there is nothing you can't live without as far as "things" go. The only thing that matters to me is my family and that includes my extended family that I've built here in Dallas.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why OKC keeps matching me with heart-attack-victims-waiting-to-happen looking men.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out with my Burning Man campmates listening to their DJ sets then doing afterparties.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I find bi guys pretty hot.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you like "real" people and can handle a very direct and sometimes challenging personality and aren't freaked out by alternative life styles.