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62 M Asheville, NC

My Details

Last Online
May 30
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I was born in the sign of Libra with a Cancer Moon, in Holland, and lived in Germany & the U.K.,then in the U.S. since 1988, Santa Fe NM, Austin TX.and now in Asheville NC. I started massage therapy and healing in Hamburg Germany in 1980 and am active in this profession. I am an extraverted introvert and definitely have a mystical bent, to wit: meditation, astrology, the occult, ESP, the near death experience, past life recall, the mystery of love and life, ancient history and our human origins (and NO I am not fashionably ashevillewoowoo, just curious and adventurous in these realms from a young age) I love yoga, qi gong, applied energy workings, and exploring Soul and Spirit. I am an empath, and subscribe to "I am" rather than "I have" : There simply is no horizon to our existence, and I live these notions to the best of my ability. Please do not expect "normal" interests, do expect loving-kindness.
What I’m doing with my life
Other than occupying myself with the things you read in my summary, I love going out or just hanging out and sharing with someone special, good conversation, sillyness and laughter, movies (all genres), reading, healthy and simple foods, nature, some travel, philosophy and psychology.
I’m really good at
Both thinking and feeling, and figuring out about myself and others what "makes us tick".
The first things people usually notice about me
openness and intuition, good listener and communicative, fun sense of humor
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:"Red, Hot & Holy" by Sera Beak (It's not what you might think)
"Slave Species of the Gods" by Michael Tellinger (Ancient ancient history like we were never taught in school)
Movies "What dreams may come " "Tous les matins du Monde" "Trance" " The Fall" " Nietsche wept" and yes, also the twilight series, & too many others. Shows: House of cards" Game of thrones, "Lost girl" "Alphas"....
Music: Vas, Dead can dance Chill, TripHop, Opera & other classical.
Food: Mexican , Indian, anything spicy, simple, not too "gourmet"
The six things I could never do without
Hugs&Affection, Good company, Silence, Doing inspiring bodywork, breakfast, morning showers, stretching & exercise(okay, that was 7)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What we are, Who we are , and our place in an infinite, eternal visible and invisible Universe, and how to feel these things more....WOW!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Ready for anything.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have lived down a lot of dysfunction in my life. I have learned how to feel and be honest about these feelings, and to take things slow in relationships.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 54–62
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Your interest is piqued by what you read in my self summary, my questions etc. and have more than a casual interest in esoterica. Are petite(ish), attractive(ish), mostly vivacious, perhaps even languidly sensuous and have a sense of humor, have your heart in the right place ,been around the block a couple of times and are curious about life and love's mystery....that's all really (lol)