Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am attracted to people who have had to work to find their path -
not people who seem to have always known the way and certainly not
those who are spinning in unsuccessful circles.
I have a fantastic life, with great, active friends and creative
work and passions.
I'm a dog lover - that's important. I volunteered at an animal
shelter for several years and now have an insanely lovable French
Officially, I'm an ENFJ, though I tend to identify as a people
loving introvert. I love my friends and meeting new people, and I
really value those connections, but I definitely need time alone to
I'd like to meet a woman who is happy, healthy, sexy, sane and
smart. One who is ready for the real thing. We've all got a list;
that's mine - right up front.
I'm smarter than a Roomba (much smarter, for what it's worth) and
funnier than most thumb tacks. I have my shit together. I don't use
asterisks to censor curse w*rds because I'm an adult, and so are
At this point, I'm not interested in being a kid-maker. I am,
however totally fine with a woman who has kids. Truly, they are
little Zen masters, if we just listen carefully enough.
My Job category of "Entertainment/Media" might lead you to believe
I'm a pole dancer. Sorry to disappoint, I'm not - at least not
professionally. I'm a video producer. My company produces marketing
and training videos for non profit, corporate and individual
clients. Yeah, that's my elevator speech.
Lastly, I could only date a conservative if we were making a
sit-com and let's hope we're not.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning. Hopefully getting smarter every day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making a plan and seeing it through. Being a good friend.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Currently reading The Tale of the Dueling Neurosurgeons - a
non fiction page turner.
Movies - Art film to smashy-smashy - Matthew Barney's Cremaster to
Casablanca to Bourne. Moonrise Kingdom is an all-time
Music - Everything. DJ Shadow, Miles Davis, Neko Case, Aimee Mann,
Jozef Van Wissem, Die Antwoord, The National, Yeah Yeah Yeahs,
Guided by Voices, The Posies, The XX, old U2, The Replacements,
Muse, Also a fan of opera and classical - and alt country - and
African - and French Pop - and other surprises.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could do without it if I had to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Time. And thinking. And sentence fragments.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I close my eyes during scary movie trailers. I don't need that
stuff in my head.
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