I am attracted to people who have had to work to find their path - not people who seem to have always known the way and certainly not those who are spinning in unsuccessful circles.
I'm a dog lover - that's important. I volunteered at an animal shelter for several years and now have an insanely lovable French Bulldog.
Officially, I'm an ENFJ, though I tend to identify as a people loving introvert. I love my friends and meeting new people, and I really value those connections, but I definitely need time alone to recharge.
I'd like to meet a woman who is happy, healthy, sexy, sane and smart. One who is ready for the real thing. We've all got a list; that's mine - right up front.
I'm smarter than a Roomba (much smarter, for what it's worth) and funnier than most thumb tacks. I have my shit together. I don't use asterisks to censor curse w*rds because I'm an adult and so are you.
I probably don't want to make kids. It's not impossible that this will change, but if you're specifically looking for someone to have a kid with, I'm not your best bet. I am, however totally fine with a relationship with a woman who does have kids. I've actually grown to love kids over the last couple years by getting to know the daughter of some friends. Truly, they are little Zen masters, if we just listen carefully enough.
Lastly, I could only date a conservative if we were making a sit-com and let's hope we're not.