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45 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:53pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I have a pretty fantastic life, filled with meaningful work, that I enjoy, creative, fun friends and lots of interests. I can go from silly to deep and back again. Life calls for different modes, does it not?

I am attracted to people who have had to work to find their path - not people who seem to have always known the way and certainly not those who are spinning in unsuccessful circles.

I'm a dog lover - that's important. I volunteered at an animal shelter for several years and now have an insanely lovable French Bulldog.

I'm an ENFJ, though I'm really on the line between Introvert and Extrovert. I love my friends and meeting new people, and I really value those connections, but I definitely need time alone to recharge.

I'd like to meet a woman who is happy, healthy, sexy, sane and smart. One who is ready for the real thing. We've all got a list; that's mine - right up front.

I probably don't want kids to have kids. It's not impossible that this will change, but if you're specifically looking for someone to have a kid with, I'm not your best bet. I am, however totally fine dating a woman who does have kids. I've actually grown to love kids over the last couple years by getting to know a friends daughter. They're amazing little learners - so honest and direct.

I'm smarter than a Roomba (much smarter, for what it's worth) and funnier than most thumb tacks. I have my shit together. I don't use asterisks to censor curse w*rds. I'm an adult and so are you.

Lastly, I could only date a conservative if we were making a sit-com and let's hope we're not.

Update 2/21/14 - I have a beard now. New pics coming. In the meantime, use a sharpie and draw one over my current pic on your monitor. I still look very young for my age. Was recently confused for being in my 20's. That person might have been a bit myopic. Most people peg me for middle 30's.
What I’m doing with my life
Learning. Hopefully getting smarter every day.
I’m really good at
Making a plan and seeing it through. Being a good friend.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - 7 Habits, Short History of Nearly Everything, To Kill a Mockingbird, Blink.

Flickers - Art film to smashy-smashy - Matthew Barney's Cremaster to Casablanca to Bourne. Moonrise Kingdom is a recent favorite.

Musica - Neko Case, Aimee Mann, The National, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, The XX, old U2, Muse, Also a fan of opera and classical - and alt country - and African - and French Pop - and other surprises.
The six things I could never do without
I could do without it if I had to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Time. And thinking. And sentence fragments.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably out with friends. Somtimes in, reading a book or watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I close my eyes during scary movie trailers. I don't need that stuff in my head.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're ready.