Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am attracted to people who have had to work to find their path -
not people who seem to have always known the way and certainly not
those who are spinning in unsuccessful circles.
I have a pretty fantastic life, with great friends and creative
work that I love.
I'm a dog lover - that's important. I volunteered at an animal
shelter for several years and now have an insanely lovable French
Officially, I'm an ENFJ, though I tend to identify as a people
loving introvert. I love my friends and meeting new people, and I
really value those connections, but I definitely need time alone to
I'd like to meet a woman who is happy, healthy, sexy, sane and
smart. One who is ready for the real thing. We've all got a list;
that's mine - right up front.
I'm smarter than a Roomba (much smarter, for what it's worth) and
funnier than most thumb tacks. I have my shit together. I don't use
asterisks to censor curse w*rds because I'm an adult and so are
I probably don't want to make kids. It's not impossible that this
will change, but if you're specifically looking for someone to have
a kid with, I'm not your best bet. I am, however totally fine with
a relationship with a woman who does have kids. I've actually grown
to love kids over the last couple years by getting to know the
daughter of some friends. Truly, they are little Zen masters, if we
just listen carefully enough.
Lastly, I could only date a conservative if we were making a
sit-com and let's hope we're not.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning. Hopefully getting smarter every day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making a plan and seeing it through. Being a good friend.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Currently reading The Tale of the Dueling Neurosurgeons - a
non fiction page turner.
Movies - Art film to smashy-smashy - Matthew Barney's Cremaster to
Casablanca to Bourne. Moonrise Kingdom is a recent favorite.
Music - Everything. DJ Shadow, Miles Davis, Neko Case, Aimee Mann,
Jozef Van Wissem, Die Antwoord, The National, Yeah Yeah Yeahs,
Guided by Voices, The Posies, The XX, old U2, The Replacements,
Muse, Also a fan of opera and classical - and alt country - and
African - and French Pop - and other surprises.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could do without it if I had to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Time. And thinking. And sentence fragments.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I close my eyes during scary movie trailers. I don't need that
stuff in my head.
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