I'm here in search of something long term. I definitely don't have commitment issues and I feel I have a lot to offer a nice girl. I know how to treat a lady and in return all I expect is loyalty, trust, and love.
I am pretty much into the same things everyone else is in terms of having a good time, but I am extremely unique in terms of my personality. I can be very serious when I have to be but I prefer to be laughing and having a great time with everyone around me. Working hard is important to me but it isn't the only thing and I never lose sight of that. I think playing hard is just as big a part of life as working hard is. For this reason I do tend to go out a lot and enjoy life rather than sitting at home.
I am very picky and I don't tolerate lies, unreliability, or games. I want to be in a relationship, but not a bad relationship. Also, i'm not a serial dater. Don't get me wrong, it's always exciting to meet a new girl and go out on a first date, but know what I want.
I was raised to respect women and treat them well. I like doing nice things for the person I love and generally love romance. I love to hold hands, open the car door for you, pull out your chair at dinner, and treat my girlfriend like the princess she deserves to feel like. If you want to be abused and star in your own personal drama then I'm just not the right guy for you. Very few people admit they like that, but based on how many people tolerate it I'd say that isn't true.
I hate pretentious people and anyone who walks around with their nose in the air. I like to associate only with "real" down to Earth people who are comfortable in their own skin, speak their mind, and know who they are. People who are always trying to "find theirselves" have nothing to find and are just missing out on life as they search for somethign abstract in a very real world. I hate that. Just be yourself and be comfortable, as long as someone does that we can hang.
I also LOVE to travel. I've been to some really cool places for work, my favorites were Cambodia and Thailand. It really opened my eyes as to how different most of the world is from our paradigm. It also opened my eyes and made me value what I have and how blessed I am. Along with that comes a duty to help others, something I really believe in. To whom much is given, from whom much is owed.
Music is a huge part of my life. Live music or good music of any kind has the power to change my mood and put me at ease.