Starting this off is a bit weird haha
But for starters you should totally say hi if you feel the desire but are shy/unsure how to start small talk.
Because I'm also absolutely terrible at small talk, and I certainly won't judge someone else's inability to either haha
I'm a big fan of honesty and openness!
OH and please do say hi and not wait for me to send you a message just because you viewed my profile.
I'm not your typical opportunistic male, if I see you've checked me out and not said anything, I will take that as a clear message that you are not interested.
I love conversation, I'm a rather open, expressive and honest guy.
I have no difficulties expressing myself when in the context of an actual conversation, it's just small talk that kills me -_- as im sure it would for most people? Maybe...haha
Straight forward, open, confident honesty is the most attractive quality beyond anything else.
I consider myself a secular humanist, I believe in equality, human rights, reason, logic, science.
I believe that feeding a lie just because it helps some not face reality is a bad influence on humanity.
There is much wonder and amazement on just this pale blue dot, so much to know and explore, and that's only just this one speck of dust in the vast expanding universe filled with a billion suns and galaxies.
I don't need to look very far to see the value and importance of life, and I certainly don't need ancient desert scrolls compiled and rewritten by a hundred ancient men controlling my life or my morals which predate it.
I'm a lover not a fighter.
I choose to converse, discuss and debate.
Rather than yell, fight and get upset.
I'm affectionate, intelligent and a dreamer.
I confidently express myself in ways important to me.
Whether that be emotionally, physically, sexually or intellectually.
As far as why I'm here hmm
I'm not really desperately seeking anything.
I'm rather happy being me.
I don't wish to screw anyone over, nor have anyone screw me over, so it's best to always be honest.
I'm not looking to settle down in my current state of life.
But at the same time I would love to find true connection.
If she was slightly geeky, with a passionate love for food and good music that make my face a very very happy one ^_^
Thing I love but don't do because I'm single;
Being very very affectionate, cuddling, spooning, just chilling and snuggling watching a tv series or anime or w/e just enjoying each others company.
Sharing and getting excited over food.
Chatting and goofing around a lot...which is then followed by many more affections..lol
Getting lost in conversations about all sorts of interesting things that pop into the mind, such as philosophy, society, religion, origins of life, the scale of the universe, life-romantiscism, humanity, anime, manga, video games, erotica, food, food, food...dreams, aspirations, desires, fantasies, or just random conversations about nothing in particular...really...I just love expression.
Passionate, excited, interesting, stimulating, heated expression.
Or just...chill lol
I am for the most part a more introverted person, that has a very expressive and friendly personality, I just choose to and am only comfortable sharing that with close people.
I'm the type who loves chill.
Beautiful mountains, rivers, beaches.
Quiet coffee shops and quiet bars.
Somewhere where I can appreciate both the atmosphere and the company.
I'm a very expressive person.
I'm very anti-club style atmosphere ^^