I try not to define my relationships before they happen, but I do have a few things in mind. I would love to find someone that I could meet about one or two nights a week to hang out with and get to know. You might be someone who is busy the rest of the week with work or kids, or something else. My criteria: First, we need to be attractive to each other. That's a two way street, I know. Second, please have your shit together, or at least most of it. And Third, most importantly, you must always observe Wheaton's Law.
I am also open to meeting women who already have a primary relationship and are looking for a secondary, since poly people are usually super cool. I do not consider myself poly but I find nonmonagamous relationships to be a very interesting topic.
I have one daughter, 8, who is the true love of my life. You won't meet her for quite a while but I will talk about her a bit if we start chatting. I have her 50% of the time, and I don't mix parenting and dating. I am on good terms with my ex, and we cooperate on parenting with no drama.
I think it's very important to stay active, both mentally and physically. Some things I like doing in my free time include all but two of the following things: Traveling, bicycling, hiking, rollerblading, cooking, conversation, yoga, seeing a live band, karaoke, dancing, playing boardgames, armed robbery, cow tipping.