You love going out, but not every night-- your refrigerator has real food in it that isn't in take-out boxes. You stay home sometimes but almost never watch television. You read books. You have a hobby that lets you be creative.
You don't define relationships before they happen, but you know what you like: Someone to hang out with one or two nights a week and get to know. Someone who gets you, who finds you attractive, and who can curl your toes in bed. And, most importantly, someone who will always observe Wheaton's Law. Always.
If you are in an open relationship and are looking for a secondary, I would love to hear your story. I have become more poly lately, and I have made some great friends in those circles. In fact, I'm currently in two different open relationships, and that's not going to change anytime soon, so you need to be ok with that.
Ok, just a little bit more about me:
I have one daughter, 9, who is the true love of my life. You won't meet her for quite a while but I will talk about her a bit if we start chatting. I have her 50% of the time, and I don't mix parenting and dating. I am on good terms with my ex, we cooperate on parenting with no drama.
I think it's very important to stay active, both mentally and physically. Some things I like doing in my free time include all but two of the following things: Traveling, bicycling, hiking, rollerblading, cooking, conversation, yoga, seeing a live band, karaoke, dancing, playing boardgames, armed robbery, cow tipping.