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Matthew104

42 M Dublin, OH

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:24am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Speaks
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Screw that. Let's talk about you. I bet you are tired of all the BS that goes with this online dating ordeal, and you just want someone you can relax with. Play some board games, go for walks. It shouldn't have to be a Thing. Maybe someone to talk to on the phone during the commute. It could be that you are just getting out of a relationship, or a marriage, or maybe you are wondering why all the men you meet are tools. You are here not because you have trouble meeting men in real life, but because you aren't satisfied with the quality of men you are meeting.

You love going out, but not every night-- your refrigerator has real food in it that isn't in take-out boxes. You stay home sometimes but almost never watch television. You read books. You have a hobby that lets you be creative.

You don't define relationships before they happen, but you know what you like: Someone to hang out with one or two nights a week and get to know. Someone who gets you, who finds you attractive, and who can curl your toes in bed. And, most importantly, someone who will always observe Wheaton's Law. Always.

If you are in an open relationship or have experience with one, I want to hear your story. I have been trying on the poly lately, and I have made some great friends in the Columbus polyamorous community. I'm actually in a few "secondary" style relationships with wonderful women who continue to surprise me and teach me more about myself.

A little bit more about me:
I have one daughter, 9, who is the true love of my life. You won't meet her for quite a while but I will talk about her a bit if we start chatting. I have her 50% of the time, and I don't mix parenting and dating. I am on good terms with my ex, we cooperate on parenting with no drama.

I think it's very important to stay active, both mentally and physically. Some things I like doing in my free time include all but two of the following things: Traveling, bicycling, hiking, rollerblading, cooking, conversation, yoga, seeing a live band, karaoke, dancing, playing boardgames, armed robbery, cow tipping.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I try to do things worth taking pictures of and telling great stories about later. For the past three years or so, I've been engaged in a sort of perpetual journey of self-discovery and exploration. I learn the most about myself through other people. I've had the mid-life realization that our time on Earth is limited, and I want to make the most of it. Career wise, I have been at the same company for 16 years now, and I enjoy my job. Outside of work, I want to live my life and get outside as much as possible. Sometimes I take day trips around Ohio on weekends. Hocking hills are a favorite. Or Highbanks. I also enjoy reading a lot of books, playing boardgames, and enjoying the company of my friends.

Helping my friends achieve their goals whenever possible. Lately, that has meant helping a lot of them move.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing and designing games, mostly board games and card games. I prefer euro style games like Settlers, Agricola, or Terra Mystica, my current favorite.

Home maintenance projects. There's always something.

Deep conversations interspersed with inappropriate jokes.

Cooking. Pad Thai. Vegetarian Tacos. Homemade Macaroni and Cheese. Let me know how you like your eggs, in case I end up making you breakfast.

(just kidding-- You're getting pancakes)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Bald, sure. Also, a lot of people tell me that I don't look my age. Or Act it-- I am 42, but I have the emotional maturity of a 32 year old. But I've also been told that I'm a very old soul. So there's that.

I have a full-scale, all-over body tattoo of myself, only taller.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I usually skip reading this section, so I won't be offended if we go on a date and you don't have the least inkling what I wrote here. But I filled it out anyway. Suffice it to say that if we connect, I expect us to be more than adequately entertained by each other without recourse to consuming media.

BOOKS: I read whatever looks interesting at the time. "Why People Believe Weird Things", by Michael Shermer was pivotal in my life, and so was, "Return to Life", by Jim Tucker. Guns, Germs and Steel. Sex at Dawn. Also a mix of self improvement and science fiction books. The Honor Harrington series by David Weber. I don't believe in keeping books after I've read them, unless they are in the top 5% of everything I've read.

MOVIES: I enjoy movies, but only a few are good enough to be quoted later. Here are a few of mine:
The Fifth Element-- "Does anyone else want to negotiate?", the Die Hards-- "Yipee Kai Yay, motherfucker"
Forrest Gump-- "Life is like a box of chocolates".
Team America World Police-- "America. Fuck Yeah"
TV: Farscape. You just can't beat muppets in space. Anything produced by Donald P Bellisario. Any show that Gale Force Nine has made a board game of.

I chose not to subscribe to cable, not because all the shows are crappy, but because they are so good. I know I'm missing out on Walking Dead, etc., but I really don't need more stuff to suck up my time. I also never plugged in the converter box for the same reason.

MUSIC: Where would we be without Pandora? Right now my favorite Pandora stations are Rush, Green Day, The Pet Shop Boys, Bowling For Soup, Arcade Fire, Tony Bennett. But I like just about everything, music-wise. Old standards can sometimes make my neck hair stand up.

PODCASTS: Savage Love, Radiolab, The Secret Cabal, This American Life, Penn's Sunday School, Rachel Maddow

FOOD: My favorite is what I cook myself. It's still kind of a new activity for me, so please share your recipes with me. (Fyi, I'm vegetarian, but not vegan. Eggs and cheese make me happy)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
It is often the simplest things that bring us the most joy. Inspiration can come from the most unlikely of sources:
1. The window
2. The wall
3. The sweat drop down my balls
4. When all these bitches crawl
5. Skeet
6. Skeet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Certain core beliefs that not everyone may share (you don't need to agree with all this but you must be ok with me believing it) :
Life is not even remotely fair, and it never will be. I believe in luck. I believe that blind, stupid, meaningless, random luck, both good and bad, is real. Sometimes bad things happen to good people, and vice versa. True Luck plays a significant role in our destinies, almost as much as the choices we make. This is no excuse for being lazy, our lives are still solely our own responsibilities, and we all need to play the hand we're dealt the best we can. Sometimes it can be difficult to distinguish between the consequences of our decisions and just pure luck. Often it is a combination. I have been immensely lucky throughout my life. How we choose to react to events and circumstances in our lives makes all the difference in our own lives and those we touch. We only live once, and there are no do-overs and no partial credit.

I think most people need adversity in their lives to stimulate personal growth. This in no way diminishes the importance of helping others.

Self Improvement. How to be even more awesome. Self improvement is something I think everyone should be working on most of the time. In particular, I think a lot about how to be the best dad I can be. My daughter amazes me every day, but I'm probably biased.

And cooking, but I already talked about that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With my daughter every other weekend. Other weekends, I will either be out with some friends of mine, or at CABS. (Columbus Area Boardgaming Society, check it out) I also like to get out swing dancing or to watch an open mike night. Love watching karaoke, might try it one day. UPDATE: I suck at karaoke but it's fun anyway.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"Just Dance" games for Wii are more fun than they have any right to be.

Eminem and Rihanna's "Love the Way You Lie" puts a lump in my throat.

I had a doctor's appointment and when they measured my height, it was 5' 10"-- One inch taller than I thought I was for the last 20 years! That was a nice surprise. Yay, me! UPDATE: That was rounding error. I really am just 5'9". Oh well. It was fun to be taller for a few weeks.

I answered over 2800 questions on here because I do that sometimes when I get bored. Most of them are marked irrelevant.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...You are still thinking about it after having read this far. Or maybe you just skipped to this part. Doesn't matter. This is a dating website, not a mail order spouse website, so I have absolutely no expectations beyond finding out what you are like and going from there.

..You swear creatively. Jesus Christ in a Sidecar.

...You have at least a passing interest in physical fitness. I'm not a body snob, but I do work out more days than not. If your idea of a workout is climbing stairs or looking for the remote under the couch cushions, that's not a good sign.

...You know who Dan Savage is and agree with him on most issues. Actually, go Google him right now if you aren't familiar. I'll wait. He will be your new favorite podcaster.

...You still have things on your bucket list that you are interested in trying.

...You won't sell all my furniture on Craigslist while I'm at work. Unless I ask you to.

...You love playing Euro style board games, card games, or if you own some d20's and know how to use them.

...You have a home improvement project and you want to swap manual labor.

...You are tired of all the losers on this site sending you their dick pictures. Why do people do that? Seriously.

...You don't put too much value on these percentage scores-- I find most of the questions irrelevant or hard to weight correctly.

...You understand that love is not something you find, it's something you do.

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