My parents are old hippies (consequentially I am vegetarian), but I'm also part goth, gamer geek, enjoy nature and animals (when I moved into my house the local stray cat joined me)... so I'm not sure that I strongly identify with any particular phyle, but am open to (and have a preference for) 'alternative' folks, in general.
In social gatherings I'll be the one lurking quietly on the sidelines, only occasionally interjecting with something dark, cynical or outrageous (think Jimmy Carr, Jack Dee etc.)... but in a one on one situation I'm much more talkative.
Like many, my musical taste is quite broad, but does not include following the current charts of commercial pop and r'n'b... My most frequently played music falls into the 'classic rock' genre, along with alternative, metal and the occasional bit of reggae.