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Matthew_Thomas

29 Phoenix, AZ Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:41pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Born in Arizona. Traveled, then came back. Martial Arts, Philosophy and Science are my main motivations. I am a very driven person, always trying to learn something new or achieve some new goal.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I teach Martial Arts. I may be going back to school for a degree in neuroscience soon.

Lots of Self Study
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Martial Arts. Learning new things, especially physical things. Dissecting the World.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am understanding and compassionate to others. Usually observant and quiet. Its not uncommon for me to go out to dinner with a group of friends and bring a book to read. I don't have the best tact, can be clumsy and rushed or just a little bit behind. I am very sure of my beliefs while maintaining a very open and curious mind. I laugh and smile a lot :) (even in text).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I mostly read books on psychology, science, mathematics and philosophy.

Movies: Mainly action, comedy and Sci-fi. I wont watch horror movies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Myself, lol

Subject to Change:
2. My lifelong goals and ambitions
3. My Books
4. A sweater my best friend gave me when I was 13
5. My Bedside Sword
6. Trees and Rain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human behavior & potential. Neuroscience, psychology, memory, Intelligence, mathematics, language, martial arts, philosophy, physics,...............and so forth............

On some occasions... I think about Pie!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, Going for a walk, or by myself... thinking... reading... learning. I am an introvert by nature and I don't like the bar scene very much or large groups of obnoxious people talking about nothing very important at all.

Would like to be spending that time with a female companion. Snuggled up watching a show or reading together. Long talks or long but intimate silence. Think cozy :) with the rain coming down, making a gentle patter against the roof. Warm tea or hot chocolate. The comfort of two people who care for each other being close and content with holding one another. That is my ideal Friday... or any night really; I will definitely take that any time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It is very difficult to find women in my life that I can relate/talk to and the ones I do meet are usually twice my age (which is not what I am looking for).

I am not what most women seem to be looking for either: I don't go out drinking and partying, I would rather educate myself with a good book. I dislike social chit-chat, I think people spend far too much time talking about entirely useless and stupid things. I am likely to hold the door for you and treat you with respect and courtesy.

I know that much of this makes me sound dry and no fun at all. Maybe that's even true; but I laugh, play and even sing with much enjoyment; so long as no one is listening :) I just see life differently than most people, I don't care for surface level interaction and superficial ambitions. I want to know people at the core, I want to truly see and appreciate them for who they are. Ironically; That can make things pretty lonely.
You should message me if
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What is very attractive to me is someone who cares about their own personal growth; both physically and mentally. They don't just talk about it either, they take action. This doesn't mean you have to be a health nut or super thin (in fact please have some curve to your body, lol), but you are making an effort beyond just wishing things were different. I have worked hard educating myself and keeping my body fit and in good shape and health. I would hope that my partner does the same, in her own way.

I don't care if you are as motivated as me about unraveling the mysteries of the universe, but I do want someone I can talk to and who at least has interest in their own personal growth. I want to support you in your life goals and dreams, love you and bare witness to your life. & I want my partner to do the same for me.

With all that said; first, I want to be friends. Lets get to know each other and see where life takes us :)