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Matthewstephan

45 M Saugerties, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 39–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jun 22
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i would really like to start a connection with a woman(what kind remains to be determined;EVEN THOUGH my MOST PRESSING PRIORITY'S "SURVIVOR";i have a "traumatic brain injury";WAY BACK IN THE 20TH CENTURY(May 12,1994),i was WAITING TO TURN RIGHT ON my BICYCLE WHEN THAT FEMALE DRIVER RAN A YELLOW LIGHT& HIT me,PRIOR TO SLAMMING ON HER BRAKES SO i WENT THROUGH HER BLASPHEMY-RISKING WINDSHIELD PRIOR TO GETTING "INTIMATE" WITH ASPHALT...now,IF i had been wearing a helemt i MIGHT WELL HAVE AVOIDED THE PAST 18 YEARS OF "rehabiliation;but i WASN'T; SO HAVE HAD TO COME TO
GRIPS W/WHAT IT MEANS TO HAVE A T(RAUMATIC)B(RAIN)
I(NJURY)...i AM CAPABLE OF walking with a "walker";yet a "wheelchair" is ALWAYS A MAJOR PART OF my life...
it IS CRUCIAL TO BRING UP THE FACT THAT WHEN my FIRST life
ENDED,i WAS DOING my "DAY JOB" OF MEDICAL TRANSCRIPTION; my "nights" were reserved for PERFORMING my AND OTHERS'musical compositions...(i am a pianist)
Now,EVEN THOUGH my MOST MAIN FOCUS' GETTING AS FAR FROM THE "FEEDING TUBE/DIAPER"OF my COMA MONTHS(May 12-Auig. 25th,1994)AS IS POSSIBLE FOR somaone WITH "BRAIN DAMAGE",i AM BEGINNING TO compose again!!
(this' EXCLUSIVELY DUE TO my RAPTURE OF BEING FIIIIINALLY
FREE OF AN "INSTUTUTION" TO my VERY OWN APT.!!;GRANTED,
THERE ARE CONSTANT(GLORIFIED)"BABYSITTERS"PRESENT BUT i CHOSE THE "CARE AGENCY" i did @ the END OF my "DAMNATION"IN INSTITUTIONAL PURGATORY {BE}CAUSE they BROUGHT UP THE POSSIBILITY OF GIVING me{"us"?}
PRIVACY...
What i'm hoping for(on the OFF CHANCE i CAN CONVINCE/CAJOLE any woman to SEE BEYOND my PERMANENT HANDICAP & begin(*@ LEAST A "friendship"!)with me;EVEN THOUGH my HOPE OF HOPES' TO FIND someone TO ERADICATE
WHAT HAS felt like my MOST "LIKELY"PATH;"DIRTY OLD man"...
(i'm 43;my FIRST SHOT ENDED WHEN i WAS 25...)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
although IN GENERAL WHAT i'M DOING'S BEING A "SURVIVOR"
(putting myself in PHYSICAL THERAPY FOR AS MANY MONTHS @ A time AS MEDICAID WILL ALLOW)i'M ALSO RETURNING TO BEING creative!;during my FIRST life,i peerformed my compositions w/a group of colleagues(although my "major "@ the Oberlin conservatory was "jazz piano",i AM AWARE THAT THE "JAZZ" MEDIUM HAS DIED THE DEATH OF THE "ARTFUCK";fitting then, that
AM NOWHERE NEAR AN "IMPROVISING" musician anymore;
RATHER,1 WHO DEMANDS years(MOST LIKELY ONLY MONTHS NOW THAT HAVE BEEN "REDEEMED" FROM INSTITUTIONAL PURGATORY)
OF self-PRESCRIBED "therapy" to ENABLE my INJURED BRAIN TO SEND THE CORRECT MESSAGES TO my body TO "EXECUTE" my thoughts(/SHUDDER!)feelings...-i DO HAVE SOME dreams of RETURNING TO PERFORMING;my schoolmate is NOW IN THE PROCESS OF BEING A PROFESSIONAL musician!;& we HAVE DISCUSSED our FUTURE COLLABORATIONS!
In terms of any "connection" possibilities with a woman
(QUASI-SURPRISING SEEING AS IT WAS A CLUELESS BITCH WHO RAN THAT YELLOW LIGHT & HIT me as i WAS WAITING TO TURN RIGHT),you NEED TO KNOW THAT i use a "walker" in public w/ my
"wheelchair"waiting RIGHT BEHIND THE FRONT DOOR FOR RETURN TO respect the fact that i NOW HAVE brain DAMAGE...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
"pushing the envelope" of my predictions(INITIAL PROGNOSIS WAS FOR PERMANENT VEGETABLE;THROUGH THESE 18(F...ING)
YEARS HAVE CLAWED my WAY UP THROUGH VARYING ENTREE ITEMS TO my CURRENT "CROUTON" STATUS;yet i CONTINUE TO "EVOLVE" ENOUGH THAT MEDICAID KEEPS PAYING FOR MOST THINGS...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my green eyes;IN ADDITION TO my PERSEVERANCE IN MAKING THE PREVIOUSLY INSTINCTUAL "ESTIMATE-ABLE"...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
i do get QUITE A BIT OUT OF e.e. Cummings;HAVEN'T BEEN reading enough in general;those with t(raumatic)b(rain)i(njury)
HAVE MASSIVE PROBLEM WITH "MEMORY/RETENTION" ISSUES...
that's something "we"could DO TOGETHER!(& "coach" each other!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a WHEELCHAIR(ONLY AFTER 2:27 PM);yet my "journals" ARE ALSO INDESPENSABLE...my father was a writing professor(he "shuffled off the mortal coil" recently;he ALWAYS SAID i was a "writer";have
been KEEPING CLOSE TRACK OF THIS FUTURE BAD MEMORY & HAVE INTENTIONS OF MAKING "PUBLICATIONS" OF (EDITED)
ENTRIES...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how i COULD RECOVER FURTHER;thinking of someone ELSE BESIDES myself!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
respecting the fact that those with INJURED BRAINS GET EXHAUSTED DURING EVERY day;so watching news,eye CANDY UNTIL 9:00 then entering into THERAPEUTIC sleep!;
however,i HAVE BEEN UP (UN)TIL 11:00;WATCHING THE MOVIE i WAS IN BUT FORGOT ALL ABOUT MAKING (BE)CAUSE THIS "DEATH PREVIEW" HAPPENED WHILE MAKING IT...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that i HAVE A (2ND)lifeTIME HANDICAP(even though i'M BEYOND EAGER TO BE A "GUINEA PIG: FOR STEM CELL RESEARCH!
You should message me if
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you'RE TRANSCENDENTALLY "UNDERSTANDING",you would like to get an UP-CLOSE PICTURE OF THE WORLD OF THE HANDICAPPED
& IF BY SOME CHANCE you would see it in yourself to become
connected with a man who IS IN THE PROCESS OF HAVING 2 lives!
(& a picture IS COMING!)