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Matthewwastaken

33 Kansas City, MO Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–34
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
University
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I'm very happy with who I am. I love metal/rock/Alternative/And Techno (EDM) music. My favorite radio stations are 96.5 The Buzz, 98.9 The Rock, 95.7 The Vibe, the St. Joe Station 105.5, Alice 102.1, and 10.1 The Fox. Though, normally I just listen to music on my iPhone with my am/fm tuner. I don't like R&B music that much, but I enjoy a little Hip Hop and Rap artist from that genre. I'm sorry, but I don't like country music much at all, though I do like Johnny Cash.
I have some of the best friends a person could ask for, and I'm really not looking for new ones, but if the right person comes along I won't turn them away. I may be old fashioned, but I think you should be best friends with the person you're in a relationship with. On that note, I won't be "best friends" with a female friend unless she's my girlfriend or someone that's heading in that direction. I still have a few friends that are girls whom I'm still close with so don't think me harsh. Truthfully, I just don't want to risk falling in love with a close female friend ever again. In my experience it normally ruins the friendship, and it's just not worth it.
I tend to have a lot of free time and am some what of a jack of all trades. I don't care for normal sports that much, but I will attend a football or baseball game if my family or friends want to go. I love Art, and find myself very artistic. I like paint ball, shooting guns(I have a few of my own), and have been in many different martial arts(Moa Saw Do Kung Fu, Systema, Shaolin Kung Fu, and Taekwondo) for a total of 5 year all together. I'm always wanting to learn more, and I still would like to find a new style to practice. I also enjoy snowboarding, and playing footbag(hacky sack). I was at one time really good at the real sport of Footbag(where you play by yourself and don't stand in a circle with others), but I haven't played in a long time. I also love playing games and watching Netflix on my xbox 360. I would say I'm a casual gamer, but I don't let it get in the way of going out or hanging out with the people I care about. I tend to think one must take everything in moderation, even moderation.
What I’m doing with my life
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I guess, I'm going through a mid life crisis at the moment lol, not really, but I did go out and buy in full a 79 Chvy Corvette Stingray. I'm not rich or anything like that, I'm just an average person who owns their dream car, and not that often does one get to say that in life, and I'm thankful, and grateful I got to. It's been almost ten years since my 86 Z-28 Camaro died on me so I'm super happy I own a sports car again. I've always liked having two cars, one for work, and one for play.
For the short answer to the question(What I'm doing with my life?), is everything I can in this moment. On a side note: "In this Moment" is a great band. Lets see, I have an alright job, my best friend/roommate and I are buying a house together, and I have my work truck(a SUV Blazer) payed off so no worries there, though, it does seem to break down quite often, so maybe a little worries. Lol. I do always get it running again within a week normally, because I use it for work all the time. I also help out with or visit my Mom, sisters, and family. Especially with my nephews and niece. I also try to hang out with my friends as much as possible. I have 5 best friends, and they're more like brothers to me than just friends. I work all the time, like everyday, but not a lot of hours so I have a lot of free time, and I spend it on way to many hobbies I try to keep up to date on. I'm pretty busy 24/7, though, I'm not so busy that I don't have time to meet someone new or go out for a night. I believe you have to make time for the things you want out of life, and finding someone to share your life with is definitely worth it to me.

This quote, unquestionable speaks of how fu*ked I am! Lol...
"The cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity." --Dorothy Parker
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking to all types and different kinds of people, and letting them know someone's there to listen to them as well, because finding that one thing in common with someone you've never meet before and sharing it with them is the best way to bond with strangers(People who you could have a lot in common with.), and one day they could turn out to be great friendships you might of missed. I'm optimistic on this I guess. I'm somewhat of a charismatic person and good at making lasting friendships. Who knew? I bet it's because I hate people as a whole, but love individuals. Especially if they're unique. I'm also a social butterfly when I'm drinking, which can be a good thing, and a bad thing at times, but truthfully I don't drink that often anymore. Maybe one or two when I'm out, but I really don't get wasted that much. Oh and I'm pretty good at doing kickass magic tricks. For real!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My tattoo's and piercings.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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As far as books I like R.A. Salvatore, Neil Gaiman, and Stephen King. I also collect a lot of comics and graphic novels.

As far as movies I like Interview with the Vampire, Braveheart, American Beauty, The Professional, Memento, V for Vendetta, Requiem for a dream, American History X, Pulp Fiction, The Breakfast Club, Fight Club, Star Wars, The Matrix, and Lord of the Rings trilogy's. Oh and I love Netflix...

As for TV shows, I like Doctor Who, Breaking Bad, Band of Brothers, The Shield, Star Trek TNG, Firefly, Justified, Burn Notice, Freaks and Geeks, Awake, Arrested Development, Game of Thrones, and The Sopranos. I also love the History Ch, National Geographic Ch, Science Ch, and a little MTV every now and again.

Music- Nine Inch Nails, Slipknot, Five Finger Death Punch, Tool, Lamb of God, Disturbed, Tiesto, Daft Punk, Paul Oakenfold, Kaskade, Aphex Twin, Inner Party System, Fiona Apple, Jewel, Eminem, Bubba Sparxxx, Mac Lethal, A Perfect Circle, Hatebreed, Hurt, Kittie, Korn, Pink Floyd, Staind, Stone Sour, System of a Down, Coldplay, and Steve Aoki. I could keep listing on and on with this one...

Italian is my favorite type of food, but I love a good steak and some sushi from time to time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1st: My friends/family is a given and should be on everyone's list. Which is why it feels like a cop out, so I'm replacing it with the board game Chess. What? I'm allowed to, plus I'm somewhat good at it. =o)

2nd: My iPhone, everyone should have some kind of phone on their list.

3rd: The Internet. How would we ever get along with out it?

4th: Cigarettes, I know it will probably kill me one day, but I like it to much to quit. They just taste too good after eating, and other certain activities as well. ;)

5th: Is my xbox 360, because we all need some form of entertainment, and this just happens to be my outlet.

6th: My Vehicles, I love driving and do so for a living. I can't imagine being without some kind of a car. I'm also throwing music on this one because I listen to it in my Blazer and Corvette more than any where else.

I need a 7th one, because comics and books should be on that list somewhere. You can't win them all...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The Universe and how it works, and what really happens at the center of Black Holes. It's truly amazing! I also think about the past quite a bit, because I love history and learning how humans came to be, and what we've accomplished in the last five thousand years. I also contemplate on the human race, and where we'll be in the next 1000 years to a Billion, and wonder if humans will ever leave Earth and find a new home while exploring the stars...

I also think about book or graphic novels ideas I've created, and how I really need to write them down and work on them more. Right now I have 9 stories, and I will probably have a few more before I'm done writing the first one.

I often think about how some people are so poor, all they have is money, and how honorable life would be if you didn't acquire or obtain an unpurchasable wealth.

How one should never live in the past, and should avoid getting attached to the moments, good or bad, for they all pass. For the more you live in the past the less time you spend in the now.

What's the proper way to ask an exotic dancer out on a date, and if it's truly possible to be in a serious relationship with a stripper, and not only from my perspective, but from hers as well.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes I just sleep in, though normally I'm either hanging out with my friends, watching movies at the AMC, staying home playing the 360, or watching netflix. I try to attend a few concerts every year as well, but that can happen any day of the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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There's one I'm willing to admit on here. First, I'm kind of ashamed to acknowledge it, but I like the song "Love You Like A Love Song" by Selena Gomez. Lol, It has stoled some testosterone levels from me, but I like what I like. It's a guilty pleasure!
You should message me if
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If you're an Agnostic, Atheist, or other, and you have some common interests as me. If you would like to get to know me better, or if you're just looking for someone like minded to chat with. I normally send at least a paragraph when messaging a person back, because I too dislike it when I get a one word or sentence message from others. If you're just looking for some one to talk with I'm taken after all.

Ps: I'm very skeptical of dating anyone that has a faith/religious belief system.