I'm an intelligent, introverted guy who would prefer a quiet evening at home with my partner. Even though I'm introverted, I do enjoy the outdoors on occasion. I can cook; I'm not the greatest, but I get the job done. I can bake. I cry at sad movies. I love to cuddle. I give a great massage. Drugs and alcohol are a turn-off; tattoos are almost always a turn-off. I like to watch tv and movies, but I try not to be a couch potato. I try to eat healthy, but I can put away a good pizza. I'm a huge geek / nerd; I love sci-fi. I love to learn. I'm not very religious, but it's ok if you are, as long as you're not overly zealous about it. I enjoy traveling and am up to 21 countries and 4 continents. I try to avoid extremist views on most issues. I love card and board games and video games. I love animals, especially cats.
I enjoy making people happy, especially my partner. I'm not very controlling or forceful, I'm all about compromise and making sure both parties are happy. My typical answer to "What do you want to do?" is "You pick." I can also be rather indecisive (see previous scenario). I have a very long fuse and rarely get angry. I don't understand relationships where people yell at each other and call each other names; I will never do that. I like strong independent women; I have no desire to tell you what to do in a relationship. I have never cheated in a relationship and I won't stick around if you are a cheater. Trust, loyalty, and honesty are core foundations - if those are shaken then our relationship will likely crumble.
I graduated with a BA in Criminal Justice and 2 BA's in Psychology (one from a foreign university), as well as a history minor. I have the CJ degree basically because I didn't know what to pick at first, and never bothered to switch away from it. I almost had a BA in history, but the amount of coursework was staggering, especially since I was trying to finish my PSY degree at the same time. I love psychology, history, science, math (to an extent), etc. I simply love to learn, and hope to spend the rest of my life doing so, in one capacity or another.
I'm really looking for a female best friend, someone who I share multiple interests with and who I genuinely enjoy being with. Someone to share those life experiences with, to make them even more special.