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39 • San Francisco, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 22–34
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Graduated from law school
- Entertainment / Media
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)
In-house tech deal lawyer by day.
World traveler (in progress).
Lover of high art and pop culture, in equal measures.
Curious agnostic from a Catholic, Pittsburgh-area family.
Wanderer (but not lost).
Been in SF 3+ years, and think I've I've finally found a home.
I cut my teeth (career-wise) doing entertainment deals (primarily in the music biz), but am loving the daily challenges that have accompanied my transition to the tech space. After an extended period of way too much moving around, I'm thrilled to be exactly where I want to be (both professionally and personally).
BOOKS - Faulkner, Rushdie, Dostoyevksy and Shakespeare are the all-stars (I was an English major back in the day). I also really like Murakami. Recent (and this is relative) favorites include "The Marriage Plot," but I also enjoyed the "Dragon Tattoo" trilogy and "The Hunger Games" (I know, I know -- catching up on literary fiction is one of my ongoing goals). Currently making my way through David Shafer's "Whiskey Tango Foxtrot" -- so far, so good.
MOVIES - All-time favorite is probably "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind." But I also love me some Apatow/Ferrell-style comedies (e.g., "Old School," "I Love You, Man," and of course "Anchorman" -- yes, even the sequel). If you catch me in the right mood, I can also get into a foreign flick ("The Diving Bell and the Butterfly"? Phenomenal). 2014 favs included "Whiplash" and "Boyhood" (which was robbed in the Oscars!). And I refuse to go to any theater but the Kabuki.
MUSIC - Ugh. The hardest one. I love good music of all genres (though commercial country is still hard for me to stomach). Radiohead is my favorite active band, bar none. The second tier, however, is massive - The National, TVOTR, Mikal Cronin, Spoon, Arcade Fire, New Pornographers, Grizzly Bear, My Morning Jacket, Wilco, Muse, Metric, Phoenix, etc. ELLIOT. SMITH. (R.I.P.). Then there's hip hop (Roots, Talib/Mos, Nas, Kanye, Lupe, Janelle Monae, J. Cole, KENDRICK...) and electronic/dance/chill (LCD, Daft Punk, Justice, Groove Armada, RJD2, Air, M83, Cut Copy, Boards of Canada...). And how can you deny pop superstars like JT and Bruno Mars? Love the classic Brit bands as well, especially the Stones, Blur, Oasis and the granddaddy of them all, The Beatles.
FOOD - I love it all (and consider myself a "foodie" without the pretension), but developed quite a taste for great sushi and authentic Mexican while living in LA. As I'm a Pittsburgh boy, though, I'm still a sucker for some hearty Italian or meat & potatoes.
1. My family (Mom, Dad, sister - and nieces!)
2. My friends (spread out across the country/world)
3. Love, and the pursuit thereof
4. A fulfilling career
5. Movies (and, hell, great TV too)
6. iPhone (mostly because of the music it connects me to)
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