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My self-summary
“Perhaps some of us have to go through dark and devious ways before we can find the river of peace or the highroad to the soul's destination.”

― Joseph Campbell, The Hero With a Thousand Faces

If we keep telling ourselves we are too short, fat, thin, tall, young, old, overqualified, unqualified, too poor, too rich, we might as well stay at home and let our souls be sedated by the powerful dogma of television.

I take risks, at a calculated cost. Are you willing to do the same? ;)
What I’m doing with my life
I am officially an author! I just self-published my own novel!

I'm also in the process of starting my own business, while freelancing during the day. Sometimes, I conduct meditation workshop to stressed out urbanites too.

La dolce vita!
I’m really good at
Everyone has been saying that I have a very resonant voice! Though I don't think that's a talent.

Ever since my blog was made available on social media, people have been messaging me with questions ranging from how to be 100% happy everyday, how to avoid guys who are players, what kind of career should they choose, etc.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm anything but Chinese Singaporean.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Alchemist
The Power of Now
Man and His Symbols by Carl G. Jung
Tao Te Ching
Tao of Pooh

And I love listening to Nugabes. RIP.
The six things I could never do without
Morning Walk
I spend a lot of time thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
Giving a free meditation workshop somewhere.
Writing content for my site at a 24 hours establishment
Dancing with friends or alone (I'm pretty good at entertaining myself)
You should message me if
I believe in conscious connection. Someone who is able to communicate with me consciously without any "superficial lines to out-charm the other party" (Yes. That was me years back), just plain old simple connection without forcing a spark.

I appreciate women who are appreciative.

Women who are independent are amazing.

...and yes. I am open to meet new friends too.

I will not message people who hides themselves in the midst of their friends in a photo, hoping that I am smart enough to figure out who they are...

P.S. My beloved grammar nazis...Yes, I am an author. If you are wondering why an author has mistakes in his dating profile...let me give you a satisfying reason - I am an author, that's WHY I have grammatical mistakes. My editor does all the clean up. ;)