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46 M Alameda, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 14
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats

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My self-summary
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I'm young at heart but I feel like I've done a lot of living. I try to be thankful for all that comes my way. I crack a lot of jokes and I love to laugh. I have a large, interesting book collection. I am very creative. I swear. I am polite and conscientious. I have an awesome, fluffy, fat cat. I have traveled far and wide and still have many miles to go. I am interested in understanding the amazing world around me, and my place in it. Sometimes I am shy...but not always! I am looking for a girlfriend.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, exploring cool things and places, having mini-adventures in the cultural underworld, desert camping when possible, growing food & meeting cool people. Traveling! Always keeping up on world affairs and seeking to get a handle on the trends that are shaping the world to come. Writing, making things in The Magic Workshop. Snuggling with my kitties.
I’m really good at
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Writing. Laughing. Contemplating the end of this crazy Industrial-Capitalist World and what will come next. Snuggling. Desert camping. Meditating. Finding and exploring forgotten places. Appreciating things. Imagining. Going the distance. Getting stuff done when it needs to be done.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Not sure! Height? Hair? Smile? Eyes? Intelligence? Sense of humor? Brilliant electromagnetic rays? ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Tales of Ordinary Madness, You Can't Win, Pharmakopeoia, The Driftless Zone, Junkie, Loba, The Art of Dreaming, 100 Years of Solitude

LA Confidential, The Road Warrior, Black Hawk Down, Donnie Darko, Stake Land, 28 Days Later

Lost, Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, Vikings

Tool, Dead Can Dance, Tom Petty, Soundgarden, Blues Traveler, Cocteau Twins, Fairport Convention, Neil Young, Other Lives

Mexican, Burmese, Indian, French, Turkish

"Each alone on the Heart of the Earth,
Impaled upon a ray of sun,
And suddenly it is evening."
-Salvatore Quasimodo
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Spirit
2. Shadow Cecilia & Tucker Villain (my cats)
3. The Little Beast (my truck)
4. Books
5. The Death Dart (my 70cc off road bike)
6. All the good people in my life.
7. Travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How the Shit's coming down. How the Shit's going to be. The Good Old Days. The kitties. All my lovely peeps. Zombies. Spirit, energy, matter and the Cosmos.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing my Friday evening chores (so satisfying!), then either going out to dinner with a friend or watching a movie at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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You want to.