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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:44pm
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
My self-summary
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I'm young at heart but have lived enough to have gained wisdom along the way. I try to be thankful for all I experience. I crack a lot of jokes and love to smile and laugh. I'm friendly. I have a large, interesting book collection. I am very creative. I am polite and conscientious. I've been known to swear sometimes. I'm a pretty relaxed, low-key kind of guy. I have an awesome, fluffy, fat cat who I tamed when she was a wee, wild kitten. I have traveled and still have destinations on my bucket list. I am interested in understanding the amazing world around me, and my place in it. Sometimes I am shy...but I can also be a funny, outgoing and animated.

I am looking for someone who accepts me for the low-key guy I am, who is monogamous, who values honesty and integrity, who knows what they want, and is clear about who they are. Chemistry is important to me. I don't want drama. We don't have to be the same - let's see what we have in common and take it from there. Friendship is fine with me, if a relationship isn't in the cards.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, exploring cool things and places, having mini-adventures in the cultural underworld, desert camping when possible, growing food & meeting cool people. Working on costumery for Wasteland Weekend. Traveling! Always keeping up on world affairs and seeking to get a handle on the trends that are shaping the world to come. Writing, making things in The Magic Workshop. Meditating. Snuggling with my kitty.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing. Laughing. Contemplating the trajectory of this crazy Industrial-Capitalist World and what will come next. Snuggling. Desert camping. Meditating. Getting away for the weekend. Finding and exploring forgotten places. Appreciating things. Imagining. Going the distance. Getting stuff done when it needs to be done.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Not sure! Height? Hair? Smile? Eyes? Intelligence? Sense of humor? Brilliant electromagnetic rays? ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Tales of Ordinary Madness, You Can't Win, Pharmakopeoia, The Driftless Zone, Junkie, Loba, The Art of Dreaming, 100 Years of Solitude, Civilwarland In Bad decline, Town Smokes

LA Confidential, Devil In A Blue Dress, The Road Warrior, Fury Road, Black Hawk Down, Donnie Darko, Stake Land, 28 Days Later, How the Grinch Stole Christmas, Boogie Nights, Whale Rider, The Secret of Roan Innish, Field of Dreams

Three's Company, Sanford & Son, Lost, Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, Vikings

Tool, Dead Can Dance, Tom Petty, Soundgarden, Blues Traveler, Cocteau Twins, Fairport Convention, Neil Young, Other Lives, Loreena McKennet

Mexican, Burmese, Indian, French, Turkish, German...any and all, really

Wasteland Weekend, Uranium Springs Detonation
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Spirit
2. Shadow Cecilia (my cat)
3. The Little Beast (my truck)
4. Books
5. The Death Dart (my 70cc off road bike)
6. All the good people in my life.

7. Travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of the world, and what comes next. My childhood. Kitties. The people I love. Zombies. Spirit, energy, matter and the Cosmos.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing my Friday evening chores (so satisfying!), then either going out to dinner with a friend or watching a movie at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Irk. Egads - gotta meet me in person to find that out.
You should message me if
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You want to. I'm friendly! :-)

P.S. I specially like to go on walks