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43 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:21am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It is really easy to figure out if you and I are NOT a match -

I'm looking for an ongoing, possibly dating, or more, relationship with an open minded woman into BDSM. I prefer women, but I'm bi, and sub to Dom men. I get along best with women who are really into that.

Also, I'm very average looking & don't have a physical wow factor. I don't have a clear face picture, because I'm not out & want to avoid the very real stigma of bisexuality.

Not your thing - GREAT! Profiles work.

Still interested, possibly intrigued?

I am well-educated, have an active life with positive hobbies, a great job, nice apartment, good car. I'd love to spend quality time with a compatible woman.

Light or non-drinkers only.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Self-employed. Like to keep active and fit.

I spend some time wondering why people don't realize how stupid they sound when they simultaneously send me homophobic messages AND complain about my picture.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Probably not as many things as I think. I am a good cook.

Adding additional words to reach the 500 word threshold limit that ok cupid wants....

Pretending that narcissism doesn't make me ill.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and / or my attitude.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I enjoy short stories. Catch 22 is my favorite book and Blade Runner is my favorite film.

Television is the new film...perhaps.

Always good to have the bible handy, though I am not religious. Ah food, music and wine...epicurean to the hilt.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
air, water, food, safe place to sleep, bathroom & hot water.

Adding more words to this profile to get a greater percentage completed ?&??!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why all the drama, yo? Relax!

Why anyone bothers complaining about my profile or picture. It is guaranteed to result in a mocking response, and being blocked. Save us both the time...PLEASE!

Does anyone really know what, "pay it forward means," and if they did, would they advocate it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am a homebody.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love people who are passive aggressive, obtuse, and narcissistic. Jk, gag....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have time, are available, and willing to meet and get to know one another.

You are a woman who really wants to date a bi man, and you enjoy pegging.....

You are genuinely excited to meet a quality man, who is open to dating....

You grasp that authentic, polite conversation involves listening, processing data, and making an intelligible response to the other person....

You actually want to meet in person, and not spend tons of time e-mailing, texting, IM-ing....

You have socialized with people in recent memory in a setting NOT involving alcohol.....(think about it....)

I've stated these in positive sentences, but it does mean if you lack basic listening abilities, a modicum of social skills, and/or are so jaded by online dating that are not genuinely enthusiastic to meet & possibly date, then please click on by :)

If that's you, let's talk over coffee, or tea.