42 Milford, MI
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My self-summary
Geeky software engineer / tech start-up co-founder in a happy open polyamorous marriage seeking like-minded, available (as in you're not sneaking around) women to share coffee, meals, movies, tennis, walks and relaxing evenings in.

Yeah, polyamorous. This means my wife and I separately date other people with each other's knowledge and approval.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a software engineer and technology company partner. I work from home, which offers a decent amount of flexibility in my schedule.

In the past I've been a shoe store stock boy, sheet metal prototyping facility worker, dish dog, K-Mart employee, Subway sandwich artist, pay-phone salesman (never did sell a one), professor's assistant (data mining madness), data entry dude, pizza delivery guy, online purveyor of women's shoes and various other arcane pursuits that I'm sure aren't coming to mind.
I’m really good at
I'm good with electronics, computers and wrapping my brain around a problem.

I am a shoulder to cry on, a strong loyal defender of those I love and cherish, and generous with my time and energies with my friends and family.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have varied tastes in both music and cinema. As much as I appreciate the depth and style of classics like Casablanca, I also really enjoy light-hearted comedies like Tropic Thunder, European TV shows the the original The Office and most of the material out of Monty Python. I truly get pleasure from sharing movies I love or respect with people I care about.

My musical tastes range wildly depending on mood and atmosphere, but include diverse genres such as industrial music, classical music and modern rock.

When it comes to books, there are 2 ways I enjoy them. One side of the coin are those books that discuss political concepts either through fiction or analysis. A good example would be Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand, or Unintended Consequences by John Ross. If familiar with those works, you probably already know I foster a libertarian streak a mile wide, and have great respect for personal responsibility and self made individualists.

The other side of the coin are fiction indulgences like the works of Tom Clancy, Dean Koontz, Robert Heinlein and various Science Fiction works by other authors.

Some of my Robert Heinlein favorites are Stranger in a Strange Land and The Moon is a Harsh Mistress.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Building my life and family. I am very happy right now, though I ponder a day where we might expand our family to enrich our lives with more partners.


Some of my favorite Robert Heinlein quotes:

"A society that gets rid of all its troublemakers goes downhill."

"Don't ever become a pessimist... a pessimist is correct oftener than an optimist, but an optimist has more fun, and neither can stop the march of events. "

"Everything is theoretically impossible, until it is done."

"Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own... Jealousy is a disease, love is a healthy condition. The immature mind often mistakes one for the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jealousy."

"Most moral philosophers consciously or unconsciously assume the essential correctness of our cultural sexual code-family, monogamy, continence, the postulate of privacy that troubled you so, restriction of intercourse to the marriage bed, et cetera. Having stipulated our cultural code as a whole, they fiddle with details- even such piffle as solemnly discussing whether or not the female breast is an 'obscene' sight! But mostly they debate how the human animal can be induced or forced to obey this code, blandly ignoring the high probability that the heartaches and tragedies they see all around them originate in the code itself rather than failure to abide by the code."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will ruin your lipstick, not your mascara.
You should message me if
Message me if:

1. Polyamory doesn't freak you out
2. You find me attractive and interesting
3. You want to know more
4. If you're married, your spouse knows you're on here
5. You're ultimately looking for a relationship

Do *NOT* message me if:

1. All you want is recreational sex
2. You do not have 1 or 2 days a week to date
3. You're a billion miles away from Milford, MI
4. You want to somehow avoid ever talking to or meeting my wife