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May87

23 / F / Straight / Single

London, United Kingdom

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), Hindi (Poorly)

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I am ambitious, passionate, and loyal.

My Self-Summary

My personality is best understood when people realise how passionate I am about reading and politics. From my experience, I dont get along with people who sit on the fence on most issues and I bore easily especally with those who have no interest in knowing what is happening around the world. I love throwing dinner parties and always have to be the host. I love to be applauded and have not yet met a person who (once getting to know me) dislikes me.

I am quite a a feminist and those who say that it is dead! it is not! definitely not for an asian girl in the UK. So you may have to put up with my ramblings about the terrible misogynistic world we live in :D

Most of the time people can read me like a book, then again I don't hide my emotions. If I'm happy people could see it, if I'm angry people will feel it. :D

There are two things that do not allow me to sleep at night... guilt and anger which is why it is imperative that I do the right thing!

What I’m doing with my life

My ambition is to get back into bar school. At the moment im training in immigration law and love advocacy!. My ambition is to become an advocate and represent client's in court. I like this area of law because its a political issue and everyone has an opinion about it. I hope to open up my own practice someday. I don't care about money I want a career!

I'm learning mandarin at the moment! and am saving up to learn argentine tango!

At the moment I have a strict schedule that I keep myself to. I want to be able to speak fluent french and mandarin and be a couple of steps closer to my dream career. :D

I’m really good at

making people feel better, being a supportive friend, socialising and debating, dancing and hosting really good dinner parties! I'm incredibly good at making people feel uncomfortable in my presence if I wish it. Trust me it's a gift.

The first things people usually notice about me

is my hair, my eyes and my bubbly personality. I'm very friendly even towards people I dont know or meeting for the first time.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love action, kung fu! I do love x-men, iron monkey, hero, rush hour. There just are so many to name! shawshank redemption, kill bill.... I do have my chick flick moments but mostly its action and kung fu.

I like to spend my free time reading fiction, my favourite authors are Austen, Wilde, Christie and any of the Bronte sisters.

I love listening to instrumental music especially to Tan Dun if you know who he is and love his music I would be very very impressed.

The six things I could never do without

loyal friends, chocolate (obviously), good food, Tetley's Earl Grey and Vanilla (it's gorgeous!) internet, I was going to say beauty supplies (but someone very very clever on okcupid pointed out how a lot of men like women au natural as do I of course there's nothing worse then hugging a man only to have your entire face printed on his clothes) so I am going to go with my sense of humour :D

I spend a lot of time thinking about

how to improve my mentality and my career!

On a typical Friday night I am

out with a friend, at a bar or a restaurant, in a car driving down the motorway with a friend listening to music I usually find quite degrading and repulsive...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

*rolls eyes*

You should message me if

if you are a gentleman who adopts traditional methods of courtship just like good old Mr Darcy.

And... if you think you could accept me despite all my faults

(Those who have pics of their tops off please DON'T BOTHER)