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Mayberryjl

32 M Miami, FL

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 12
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am a patient person generally and I like a calmness to envelope my world... but still manage to party when I need to shake things up a bit. If something bothers me I'm not afraid to be honest and talk about it respectfully

As for the direction my life is going right now, I decided to become a Massage Therapist and attended the Florida College of Natural Heath. I've finished and can go into the world being able to better help those around me. Now the plans are tentative... learning to speak Japanese is high on the list and then maybe yoga instruction....we'll see. I'm fairly "neo-hippy" but blend in well with all social environments.

I'm also a visual artist. I tend to work mainly in sumi-e and watercolors now, but I can work in acrylics and oils if the mood strikes me. My process is meditative more than anything and I don't have much ambition to be well know or famous. To be honest most of my pieces live in nice folders on my bookshelf waiting for someone to come along and appreciate them.

I moved to Miami 9 years ago from a very rural town in Tennessee. The first years here were very hard for me, but I've come to understand the city and it's attitude. My friends are my family here and they are very important to me.

I'm looking for someone that ends up being my best friend, regardless of any romantic entanglements we may get ourselves into. Ideally it would be both, but life doesn't seem to work out that way too often so I'm just rolling with the punches from now on...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it. I don't let bumps in the road get me down and always try to be positive.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being crafty and creative. Listening, helping others, being entertaining or random as the mood strikes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, or my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Tolkein (although I get exasperated with him sometimes)
Anne McCaffery's Dragon Riders of Pern
Roger Zelazny's The First (and Second) Chronicles of Amber
Anne Rice's The Vampire Chronicles

Umm...yeah I like to read authors who create their own worlds and extremely long story lines. I read to entertain myself and I like to get lost in fantasies.

When I'm not reading random fantasy novels I have my head buried in Zen philosophy.

Zen and the Japanese culture, D.T. Suzuki
Living by Zen, Suzuki
The Roaring Stream: A new Zen reader, Foster & Shoemaker
Blowing Zen, Ray Brooks
The Zen teachings of Bhodidharma translated by Red Pine
And my list keeps growing in this category...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Affection, friends, Paint and brushes, music, my Shakuhachi (japanese flute)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
LOL this can be a tricky one. My mind does it's own thing and I reign it in when it goes a little too far off the deep end.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with my friends and getting into and or out of trouble.
Studying
Staying in and enjoying some solitude
just depends on my mood......
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Umm....yeah no. I take some things to the grave.
You should message me if
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You are looking for an honest, quirky, nice, caring person to get to know. Or if you just want a cuddle buddy....I could really use one of those.