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32 M Miami, FL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:20am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am a patient person generally and I like a calmness to envelope my world... but still manage to party when I need to shake things up a bit. If something bothers me I'm not afraid to be honest and talk about it respectfully

As for the direction my life is going right now, I've decided to become a Massage Therapist and am attending the Florida College of Natural Heath. In a rather short period of time I'll be finished and can go into the world being able to better help those around me. After that the plans are tentative... learning to speak Japanese is high on the list and then maybe yoga instruction....we'll see. I'm fairly "neo-hippy" but blend in well with all social environments.

I'm also a visual artist. I tend to work mainly in sumi-e and watercolors now, but I can work in acrylics and oils if the mood strikes me. My process is meditative more than anything and I don't have much ambition to be well know or famous. To be honest most of my pieces live in nice folders on my bookshelf waiting for someone to come along and appreciate them.

I moved to Miami 8 years ago from a very rural town in Tennessee. The first years here were very hard for me, but I've come to understand the city and it's attitude. My friends are my family here and they are very important to me.

I'm looking for someone that ends up being my best friend, regardless of any romantic entanglements we may get ourselves into. Ideally it would be both, but life doesn't seem to work out that way too often so I'm just rolling with the punches from now on...
What I’m doing with my life
Living it. I don't let bumps in the road get me down and always try to be positive.
I’m really good at
Being crafty and creative. Listening, helping others, being entertaining or random as the mood strikes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Tolkein (although I get exasperated with him sometimes)
Anne McCaffery's Dragon Riders of Pern
Roger Zelazny's The First (and Second) Chronicles of Amber
Anne Rice's The Vampire Chronicles

Umm...yeah I like to read authors who create their own worlds and extremely long story lines. I read to entertain myself and I like to get lost in fantasies.

When I'm not reading random fantasy novels I have my head buried in Zen philosophy.

Zen and the Japanese culture, D.T. Suzuki
Living by Zen, Suzuki
The Roaring Stream: A new Zen reader, Foster & Shoemaker
Blowing Zen, Ray Brooks
And my list keeps growing in this category....
Someday I will learn Japanese so that I can read the texts in the original language and not miss out on the subtleties that get lost in translation.....
The six things I could never do without
Affection, friends, Paint and brushes, music, my Shakuhachi (japanese flute)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
LOL this can be a tricky one. My mind does it's own thing and I reign it in when it goes a little too far off the deep end.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my friends and getting into and or out of trouble.
Staying in and enjoying some solitude
just depends on my mood......
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Umm....yeah no. I take some things to the grave.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are looking for an honest, quirky, nice, caring person to get to know. Or if you just want a cuddle buddy....I could really use one of those.