I pride myself on being conscientious, loyal and trustworthy. While I appreciate a little mystery and intrigue in the world of dating, I really don't have the patience for game playing.
I'm at my best when I'm passionate about something and I'm innately drawn to intensity. Though I'm often soft spoken and gentle in demeanor, I doubt any friends would describe me as being a tranquil soul.
My sense of humor tends to run darker than most but I still do enjoy smiling and having fun (I keep telling myself that anyway).
I'm not really the outdoorsy sort. Hiking with the dogs, camping, going for a dip in a lake…it's just not my thing. Hotels and hot showers? Now we're talking!
But I do get outside. I adore going to the pool each summer and though my endurance isn't top notch, I'm a very good swimmer. I also enjoy monitoring bats as a volunteer for the DNR. When I go to a park it's often when everyone is heading home. Following trails and meandering down rivers by night is far more enjoyable in my opinion and it's a lot more interesting dealing with what I imagine seeing or hearing in the dark. I haven't encountered a vampire…yet.
I'm a night owl through and through. I've tried scheduling myself doing early shifts at work but all it means is that I take longer naps. My most creative and energetic times seem to be in the later evening so I try to make the best of it.
On things domestic--I've never been married and I have no kids. I do have a house but lack the know-how (and motivation) to truly improve it. I like to keep myself relatively clean and my home is an extension of that. I appreciate dramatic colors, art and lighting so I play to my strengths. I don't have any pets though I've met one dog and one cat in my life that I thought were truly special beings. As far as my interest in someday having children of my own, I'm "fixed" so I'm afraid I can't be very flexible on that front.
One of my favorite ways to share an evening is listening to music with beer or wine and discussing more than just the day's events. I enjoy conversing about psychology, sociology, sexuality and gender, art (no, probably not paintings, more like music, movies and books), religion and perhaps a little politics. Though I wouldn't describe myself as overtly political, I do harbor a handful (or two) of strongly held beliefs. Having worked at a cooperative business for many years, I'm more than a touch anti-corporate and my social views tend to run exceedingly liberal. However, the world is so complicated that I must admit that too much of any side is either unworkable or unsustainable.
Spirituality is of some interest of me but I have no path of my own. I do yoga once a week to increase my ability to be present and to help avoid injury. If there is something greater than us, it's been lost on me.
As far as who I'm looking for, it's really difficult to say. One thing I have learned over the years is that big hair, make up, long nails and high heels hold absolutely no appeal to me. If you think of yourself as a bit tough or a tomboy, there's a higher probability we'd find more in common. As you may have already concluded, I'm not exactly a guy's guy, so I can only hope that works for you.