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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 39-65
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Judaism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm cool, but it might take you a while to figure that out. After working for many years as a book editor, last year I finally achieved my lifelong dream of writing professionally. Since then I've had articles published in some of our more prominent magazines and newspapers, on subjects like Orson Welles, Alfred Hitchcock, and novelist and screenwriter Budd Schulberg, to name just three. So this is a tremendously exciting time for me.

Beond that, I can be witty, charming, sensual, over-intellectual, emotionally supportive, and damned interesting. Except on those days I'm not.

Oh, and I'm an Ivy League graduate, but don't hold that against me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Reading, writing, going to films I plan to review. Hanging out in cafes and trying desperately to avoid people with conspiracy theories.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conversation, thumb wrestling, cooking with my wok.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm wearing a really nice sweater.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Unfinished Novel: F. Scott Fitzgerald, "The Love of the Last Tycoon"; Autobiography: Ben Hecht, "A Child of the Century"; Movie: Godard's "Breathless"; Play: Chekhov, "The Seagull"; Ice cream: Haagen Dazs Triple Chocolate; Music: Mahler, Symphony # 2, and The Beatles.

Some of my favorite places: Paris, the Temple of Dendur room at the Met, Oxford, Vienna's Cafe Sperl, Sag Harbor, Lincoln Center, the Cote d'Azur, The Strand bookstore, Kibbutz Degania Bet, and the Hungarian Pastry Shop right here in New York.
The six things I could never do without
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Coffee, my book collection, films, old friends, and my dose of the day's news. That's 5 -- could number 6 be you?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of modernity.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This IS Friday night!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That 99% of the women who write to me are young, gorgeous, bosomy girls who turn out to be hairy-assed guys sitting in internet cafes in Ghana or Nigeria trying to scam me for money. But I'm wise to their tricks: if a profile picture has a woman with big boobs, I know that they (both the boobs and the woman) are fake.

Despite this I continue to search for true and enduring love. Some guys never learn.
You should message me if
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If any of this appeals to you, of course. And even if it doesn't, drop me a note anyway. I'm a glutton for criticism.