I'm mature girl who likes a man who can express himself. A nurse forever and can never imagine not being one. I didn't grow up around here. I am a very recent transplant to the Maryland area. I lived in MA/NH for 26 years. I never did understand the 'New England' mentality. I'm originally from Pittsburgh PA. We are a friendlier people. We are also a huggy, talking people. Put it this way, when you wait for a bus it is MANDATORY that you know one person's life story before you get on the bus. I am hoping to find that friendliness that I remember in PA as I was growing up here in the Baltimore area. So, this is me... Pretty transparent and I like people who are the same.
People have told me that I'm 'brave' taking a new job so far away from all that I have known for 26 years (MA), but I do not see it that way. Sure - is it a little scary? Heck yes but it is also an adventure!
I actively live my life and try to see the good in all situations (even the difficult times). I am a do-er not a dreamer. These are qualities that I seek in a partner. Yes, I am looking for the ever elusive LTR. Recently I have gotten into a Poly lifestyle . I know that LTR and Poly lifestyles seem to contradict but I can assure you they do not. I tend to run in the bdsm circles but I can "do" vanilla. I will not "do" vanilla as a steady diet though because to do that is like living on salad all the time. I like variety on my plate. I am NOT a sub/slave/DOMME/or Mistress. I am NOT looking for a DOM or Mistress. I am a Little at heart. If you do not know what that is please do not message me. If you are as transparent as I am and reading this profile rings a bell with you, I look forward to hearing from you.DO NOT message me if you are not into the lifestyle, "want to try it", or do not have practice in your kink. I do not want to introduce the inexperienced into the lifestyle, it's too exhausting for me.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I am balancing a dynamic job and living life fully, wondering what shape it will all take when the dust settles :-) and hoping sometimes that the dust never settles because I'm having just such a blast!
I’m really good at
I love to cook and decorate. I know, very Martha Stewart but there is something about someone sitting down to a meal that you have cooked and really enjoying, knowing that you have brought them that little bit of sunshine. It is stupid, I know...
I'm also very good at kissing boo-boos, wrapping a bad knee, empathizing, solving problems, giving a shoulder or a hand to help and other things "nice girls" don't talk about.
The first things people usually notice about me
My enthusiastic and honest personality. Perhaps they notice my hair, carefully arranged messy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - fiction, science fiction
Food -Chinese, American, Irish, German, Polish, indian,
LOVE musicals! LOVE theater!
Music - oldies and some alternative, rock and sometime country
The six things I could never do without
hot bubble baths
(That's more than six... Too bad lol...let's break some rules. )
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where my life was, is, and is going... and how to get it there,
what lessons I have learned along the way that made me who I am. I
am a do-er not a dreamer. Even with the bad times I would not
change my life because I like how it has molded me to what I am
right now and going to b tomorrow :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
watching NetFlix, working, out with friends, hitting the clubs, going to a party, or staying in. In other words, I'm doing what I want to do, didley darn it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Right now? I'll have to think about that. Haven't I revealed enough to pique your interest?
You should message me if
You actively pursue your life, haven't given up and "settled" for less, have a positive upbeat 'can do' attitude, look for ways to solve problems and obstacles instead of just complaining about them, are emotionally available, have an engaging personality, and can afford your square foot of the planet! Finally, want to meet a gal who will remodel with you, dig in the dirt, put on a cocktail dress, give her right arm to a friend, goes to plays and games, is emotionally available to share a full life with her significant others, is a helpmate, playmate and teammate with a Little spice thrown in. Just a FYI, I'm interested in a ltr with a Strong Daddy for my Little side. If kink scares you... Then don't waste your time and mine. Serious inquiries only.