I have a Master’s level education…I love the mindlessness of operating machinery
I do not drink…I end up being the life of the party
I dress “cowboy”…I have numerous Rap CDs
I am politically conservative…I don’t understand the opposition to gay marriage
I am very laid back…I drive through projects with focused intensity
I am non-confrontational…I always say exactly what I think
I am as county as it gets…I work in downtown KC
I can spend all weekend on the couch reading a book…I love concerts, any concert
I can shave with a straight razor…I am never far from my iPhone
I can write eloquently…I think that sending mountains of emails back and forth is pointless
Now, let me assist you in your decision concerning contacting me:
I have 3 kids. I don’t drink. I don’t smoke. I dip snuff. I only wear jeans. I have an old-fashioned value system. I am not looking for casual sex or FWB. I don’t do drugs, EVER. PERIOD!
What am I looking for?
Honestly…I don’t know. I can raise my kids. I can do my own laundry (yes that includes ironing). I am an excellent cook. I don’t need a woman to do these things for me. If that is all you have to offer, you are wasting your time and mine. I don’t need casual sex. I can get that anytime without going through the effort of writing all this. So, what do I want? Intelligence. Someone that can hold up their end of the conversation. Kindness. Someone who is genuinely kind to everyone. Friendship. Someone to be my best friend and want that from me too. Desire. Again, a two way street. Teammate. Relationships are a team sport.
If your profile says you are “drama free”, you are either lying or haven’t lived much. Interaction between two humans creates drama. Every time as far as I can tell.
I think the “Match Percentage” is a waste of time. I don’t need someone just like me. I want some variety. Honestly, a good, passionate, discussion with someone who disagrees with me would be a welcome change from “don’t rock the boat” dates. Don’t any of you have your own opinion of anything?
If your profile says something along the lines of “must know who they are and what they want”; I completely don’t understand. What I “am” is a work in progress. I don’t expect this to change before I die. I work to improve myself every day. What I “want” changes regularly. It is certainly different now than it was when I was 30. If what you “want” or who you “are” hasn’t changed…YOU are the one who stopped learning and growing.