I would probably meet you in an establishment which has some "atmosphere", but when left to my own devices, I tend to inhabit dives. I seek out the grit which nostalgically reminds me of the way the town used to be when I moved here in the early '80's.
I usually date women in their thirties. (Apparently I'm still reasonably attractive for a middle-aged fart). I have been single off-and-on for the past couple of years, and the women that I've met online who are close to my age range (actually, my preference) have all split with me because I did not meet their minimum income requirement, despite the fact that I normally work more than full-time. (Did I just write that? Hello, empty mailbox:)