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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:37am
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Catholicism and laughing about it
Post grad
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I seriously thought that I filled all this information out previously! No wonder people keep looking at my profile and not sending me messages. . . I was beginning to get a complex!

So, first and foremost, I can be a bit absent-minded at times. Wait -- what was I going to say?

In all seriousness, I'm a just a normal 40-something guy. My life has been more than a little bit crazy over the last several years, but I'm now getting back out there and dating again.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
There was a time in my life where the answer to this question would've been "working. And working. And then working." Nowadays, however, priorities have changed a bit. I'm a single dad, so I spend my time chasing kids. And working.

Exciting, huh?!!

I do find time to go to the gym 3-4 times per week, and I'm making an effort to get out more often socially (although this involves getting a sitter, and all the associated guilt of leaving my kids when I should be at home with them). Being single at 41 is definitely different than it was at 21 . . .
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmmmm. Working (I'll tell you what I do later, if you're curious). Being both dad and mom to my kids. Making people laugh (usually at me, but occasionally with me). Cooking, in general. Making cocktails. Fixing things. Functioning on very little sleep (I'm not only good at this, but I'm presently doing it!).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
To be honest, I do my best not to be noticed for anything in particular, except that I'm generally well put-together and appropriate. I guess I would say my sense of humor, or my attention to detail. Let me think about it and get back to you . . .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I don't really have much time to read these days (haven't for several years, actually), so I'll just fall back on the stuff that I was required to read in college. Not that I actually remember college . . .

Movies: I prefer "classic" movies -- I haven't actually been to a movie theater in years. I'm partial to Marilyn Monroe, Clark Gable, Cary Grant, Lana Turner . . . you get the point.

Shows: I don't really watch much T.V., unless you want to count "Angelina Balerina," "Sesame Street," or the various kids shows on Nickleodeon. I enjoy watching news/political programs and documentaries when I can. I tend to talk to the T.V. quite a bit when it's on -- I've been told that watching television with me is quite an amusing experience . . .

Music: My tastes are pretty eclectic, and can be summed up in two words: no country.

Food: Just about anything. I love to cook, as well!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Well, I could never do without my kids, so that's two things (Thing One and Thing Two, I guess!). Otherwise, I don't think that there's much I couldn't do without if I had to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I can almost always win when playing solitaire with actual cards, but I can never win when I'm playing it on my computer. Why flammable substances are sometimes referred to as "imflammable." What the "33" on the back of a Rolling Rock bottle means.

See, I'm deep. . .
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home recovering from the week and looking forward to sleeping in a little bit!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ask away . . .
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Anything I've said here resonates with you, or if you're curious about me and would like to know more. I'm a bit hesitant to reveal too much personal information on a site like this for the whole world to see, but I'm happy to provide more details (and pics, of course) if you're interested.