So, you know how almost all profiles you read basically say the same thing?... "I like walks on the beach..." or "Cuddling up on the sofa to watch a good movie..." or "I'm looking for someone that is genuine, drama free and honest..." While that's all well and good, and I too am attracted to some things listed when putting your best foot forward when describing oneself to attract a possible mate, I want a little um, er... more.
Talking and cuddling are great but there's so much more and I'm hoping to find someone to share great times with. I'm active and love anything to do with water, from boating at the lake to heading to the beach for a spontaneous weekend getaway. The occasional night out on the town is a must but I tend to be drawn to good music and good food. Socially, I'm open and never met a stranger, emotionally I tend to be the care giver and sexually I tend to take control.
I'd love to find someone who is open to a poly type scenario. I've tried to date the traditional way a few years after my first poly experience but miss being part of a three musketeers type thing. I'm looking for my primary and eventually someday we can bring in another. This is a slow process and I don't want to rush.... As far as characteristics of that person(s), trust is first and foremost, someone active, funny, can communicate like an adult and of course be playful and open. Don't misunderstand. This isn't about jumping into bed. I truly want to find the one and build a great foundation together. I prefer to think of it as a happy little family sharing life and having a true connection between everyone. Does that make sense?
Since what I'm looking for is a bit edgy and outside the norm, my pic is a little vague purposefully to keep my anonymity from those I may know on here professionally. Reach out to me only if you may be open to what I'm looking for and I'll provide you with better pics.