Ok, after a number of lousy, and horrible attempts at first meetings and the inevitable shocked and run away reactions I have received, I am stating this first. EVERYTHING I do is legal PERIOD! If you are bothered by my job, hobbies, ect that I do, have the balls to say so. No, I am not a killer, or rapist or anything like that, if you have those worries to start off with, ok, fine. Bring a friend with you to the first couple meetings. Have the balls to speak your mind and don't hide behind, "I am not looking for anything serious right now" after talking with me every chance you have. I have 3 sisters and I have actually figured out the meanings of some of these little things girls like to say. I am not going to waist your time, so don't jerk me around.

I am 5'10" at 160 pounds, fit, and hard working. I am not much for sitting around doing nothing, I prefer to be out and about weather it be with friends, family, and so on. I have a wide selection of friends and am willing to get to know anyone that has an open mind and doesn't make snap judgments about someones personality. Depending on my mood (and topics being talked about) I can be very easy going right up to abrasive. I am not interested in being around someone under the age of 60 that is positive they have ALL the answers out there, rather I want to be around someone who is willing to learn and maybe even try new things.

I am Intense, helpful, and caring

My goals in life are my own, my aspirations are about the same. I don't talk about them much as I have come close to some of them and had them pulled away. But I keep going for what else is there. I don't believe in ever finding someone that is on the same path as me and getting married and living happily ever after. ITS A DREAM. Life is about finding someone you want to be with, to stand along side and work through what problems life may throw at you, someone that I can wake up to and can't wait to see what the day holds for both of us.

Not talking about myself. I always feel like I am either bragging when telling about the things I am good at, or trying to get whining when talking about things I am not so good at. So, I tend to not talk to much about myself when I am getting to know someone new. Don't let that stop you from asking questions. I am open and honest, so feel free to ask anything. I must say I am bad for not letting people see me as I really am, instead, I tend to come across abrasive at times, but given a chance, people tend to find that my abrasiveness comes from past experiences. I tend to see the good in people most of the time and have let that cloud my judgment in the past.

Aside from that, I Draw, play the guitar, and I am a woodworker. I tend to be creative and build things that are needed like furniture rather than going out and buying them. Considering I am a carpenter by trade, I actually do a good job as I have to live with it.

Ask them.

My taste in music
I love Classic rock the 60's, the 70's and the first half of the 80's. Frank Sanatra and Bobby Darren aren't dead.....legends never die. I even listen to some swing too. So, to sum it up, Classic Rock, Big Band era, and some Swing.

Movies, well, I tend to lean towards the classics. Hatari, Sargent York, The Americanization of Emily, but I also enjoy modern movies too. I like ones that require some though and don't come across like they are out of my 10 year old nephews mind.

Spending time with friends. Maybe out playing a round of pool, watching a movie, if the opportunity arises I will go out salsa dancing.

I have my past, skeletons in closets, and some interesting history. Have any questions, just ask, I am very upfront and honest.

If you wish to go straight to talking, you can add my msn mcpherson284@hotmail.com or yahoo mcpherson284@yahoo.com

If you are the type of girl/woman that believes you can figure out a guy in an hour and deside if he is right for you, don't bother with me. It takes me a month to make an impression on anyone I meet. So, please don't waste my time, first impressions are very rarely correct, hence why I don't make them.