Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am 5'10"- 5'11" at 160 pounds, fit, and hard working. I am not
much for sitting around doing nothing, I prefer to be out and about
be it with friends, family, or doing my own thing. I have a wide
selection of friends and am willing to get to know anyone that has
an open mind and doesn't make snap judgments about someones
personality. Depending on my mood (and topics being talked about) I
can be very easy going right up to abrasive. I am not interested in
being around someone under the age of 60 that is positive they have
ALL the answers out there, rather I want to be around someone who
is willing to learn and maybe even try new things.
I am Intense, helpful, and caring
That said, I do not do well with BS, and head games. I am looking
for something real, where the understanding is I am meeting up with
someone from here because she (you) have piqued my interest and
there is the interest in finding out from both sides if we are
compatible with each other and interested in dating each other.
Before you ask, yes, I have to spell this out because for some
reason I have had many conversations on here where meeting up with
someone from a dating site seemed like a silly idea to a number of
I am not interested in a long distance relationship, but if you are
interested in talking i am fine with that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My goals in life are my own, my aspirations are about the same. I
don't talk about them much as I have come close to some of them and
had them pulled away. But I keep going for what else is there. I
don't believe in ever finding someone that is on the same path as
me and getting married and living happily ever after. ITS A DREAM.
Life is about finding someone you want to be with, to stand along
side and work through what problems life may throw at you, someone
that I can wake up to and can't wait to see what the day holds for
both of us.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not talking about myself. I always feel like I am either bragging
when telling about the things I am good at, or trying to get
whining when talking about things I am not so good at. So, I tend
to not talk to much about myself when I am getting to know someone
new. Don't let that stop you from asking questions. I am open and
honest, so feel free to ask anything. I must say I am bad for not
letting people see me as I really am, instead, I tend to come
across abrasive at times, but given a chance, people tend to find
that my abrasiveness comes from past experiences. I tend to see the
good in people most of the time and have let that cloud my judgment
in the past.
Aside from that, I Draw, play the guitar, and I am a woodworker. I
tend to be creative and build things that are needed like furniture
rather than going out and buying them. Considering I am a carpenter
by trade, I actually do a good job as I have to live with it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My taste in music
I love Classic rock the 60's, the 70's and the first half of the
80's. Frank Sanatra and Bobby Darren aren't dead.....legends never
die. I even listen to some swing too. So, to sum it up, Classic
Rock, Big Band era, and some Swing.
Movies, well, I tend to lean towards the classics. Hatari, Sargent
York, The Americanization of Emily, but I also enjoy modern movies
too. I like ones that require some though and don't come across
like they are out of my 10 year old nephews mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with friends. Maybe out playing a round of pool,
watching a movie, if the opportunity arises I will go out salsa
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have my past, skeletons in closets, and some interesting history.
Have any questions, just ask, I am very upfront and honest.
You should message me if
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If you are the type of girl/woman that believes you can figure out
a guy in an hour and deside if he is right for you, don't bother
with me. It takes me a month to make an impression on anyone I
meet. So, please don't waste my time, first impressions are very
rarely correct, hence why I don't make them.
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