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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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I am 5'10"- 5'11" at 160 pounds, fit, and hard working. I am not much for sitting around doing nothing, I prefer to be out and about be it with friends, family, or doing my own thing. I have a wide selection of friends and am willing to get to know anyone that has an open mind and doesn't make snap judgments about someones personality. Depending on my mood (and topics being talked about) I can be very easy going right up to abrasive. I am not interested in being around someone under the age of 60 that is positive they have ALL the answers out there, rather I want to be around someone who is willing to learn and maybe even try new things.

I am Intense, helpful, and caring

That said, I do not do well with BS, and head games. I am looking for something real, where the understanding is I am meeting up with someone from here because she (you) have piqued my interest and there is the interest in finding out from both sides if we are compatible with each other and interested in dating each other. Before you ask, yes, I have to spell this out because for some reason I have had many conversations on here where meeting up with someone from a dating site seemed like a silly idea to a number of women.

I am not interested in a long distance relationship, but if you are interested in talking i am fine with that.
What I’m doing with my life
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My goals in life are my own, my aspirations are about the same. I don't talk about them much as I have come close to some of them and had them pulled away. But I keep going for what else is there. I don't believe in ever finding someone that is on the same path as me and getting married and living happily ever after. ITS A DREAM. Life is about finding someone you want to be with, to stand along side and work through what problems life may throw at you, someone that I can wake up to and can't wait to see what the day holds for both of us.
I’m really good at
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Not talking about myself. I always feel like I am either bragging when telling about the things I am good at, or trying to get whining when talking about things I am not so good at. So, I tend to not talk to much about myself when I am getting to know someone new. Don't let that stop you from asking questions. I am open and honest, so feel free to ask anything. I must say I am bad for not letting people see me as I really am, instead, I tend to come across abrasive at times, but given a chance, people tend to find that my abrasiveness comes from past experiences. I tend to see the good in people most of the time and have let that cloud my judgment in the past.

Aside from that, I Draw, play the guitar, and I am a woodworker. I tend to be creative and build things that are needed like furniture rather than going out and buying them. Considering I am a carpenter by trade, I actually do a good job as I have to live with it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My taste in music
I love Classic rock the 60's, the 70's and the first half of the 80's. Frank Sanatra and Bobby Darren aren't dead.....legends never die. I even listen to some swing too. So, to sum it up, Classic Rock, Big Band era, and some Swing.

Movies, well, I tend to lean towards the classics. Hatari, Sargent York, The Americanization of Emily, but I also enjoy modern movies too. I like ones that require some though and don't come across like they are out of my 10 year old nephews mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with friends. Maybe out playing a round of pool, watching a movie, if the opportunity arises I will go out salsa dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have my past, skeletons in closets, and some interesting history. Have any questions, just ask, I am very upfront and honest.
You should message me if
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If you are the type of girl/woman that believes you can figure out a guy in an hour and deside if he is right for you, don't bother with me. It takes me a month to make an impression on anyone I meet. So, please don't waste my time, first impressions are very rarely correct, hence why I don't make them.