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39 M Victoria, British Columbia, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
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Quick note, I can't answer the status question accurately with their options, so I will explain if you would like. I fit into all of the above.

Hmmm. This description was well overdue for a rewrite, so here it goes. I am at a point of reinvention in my life, or at a minimum self discovery and honesty. I have two wonderful children that I adore and like to spend time with. They are young so you will need to be good with kids.

I enjoy working out, reading, cooking and getting out of the house, although sometimes need a reason to do it. I am intelligent, logical, organized, introverted and have a lot of common sense. I value my time and hate being late because I value others time also. I would love to be living rurally on some land and build my own home from the ground up. This will be my reality at some point.

I'm primarily looking to find an understanding, patient, intelligent, sensual, funny woman that loves to get out into nature with the same values and desires. I'm open to everything from friendship to maybe more but that will need to be determined at a later date. Maybe it's you, maybe not but I guess if your still reading something here is interesting to you.

I would like a women that is as comfortable dressed up as she is getting dirty. If you can rock a pair of jeans and tank top, a summer or evening dress as well as a pair of sweats and a baggy shirt you've got me. Confidence is a turn on and with me being introverted you might have to make the first move, but I may suprise you.

I want to be with someone that makes me wanna get up and dance with them in all my awkwardness. She makes me want to be wild and crazy and silly and excited around her. I wanna feel that rush of feeling like I'm home when I see her and wanna rush home to see her. Maybe it's you.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently going back to school again. Ugh. As if 9 years wasn't enough. Finally found what I was meant to do and it feels incredible to do things for me now and to look after myself completely in a good way
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a dad, listening, offering advice, honesty, building and fixing things, people and problem solving. I've been told I give a good massage (references available upon request), but you should form your own opinion.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told my eyes or shoulders, my glasses that I wear on occasion, maybe my tattoos if I have my shirt off.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - I don't get a lot of time to read, but my latest titles include Cinderella, diary of a wimpy kid, oh and captain underpants. But enjoyed Robert Jordan's wheel of time, and the wizards rule series.
Movies - just about anything, science fiction is my favorite no matter how cheesy. Galaxy quest, orgasmo, LOTR, matrix.
Shows - The 100, game of thrones, fringe, dr who.
Music - wide range. Some favorites include Ozzy, Coldplay, linkin park, teagan and sarah, metric, makelmore, offspring anything with great lyrics or story behind it.
Food - Anything is fine by me. I do like a lot of ethnic foods, Thai, sushi, Greek, Indian, sushi etc. I enjoy cooking, and am not too bad at it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My workshop
2) exercise
3) my kids
4) quiet time
5) my phone
6) intimacy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My dream home, what makes me happy, my kids, what I have to do next, what can I make next. My brain works so fast sometimes I can't keep up. How to find that special someone and be special in someone's world and have someone special in mine.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm at home, I'm not much for clubs and noise, so I'd rather be home enjoying my time or snuggling with my kids or someone special.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I miss intimacy, I'm not talking about sex (I miss that too) but feeling close to someone those looks and touches.
You should message me if
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Something I said resonates with you, or you simply want to get to know me or you read this far.