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Mdrm52

21 / M / Straight / Single

Long Beach, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 7:56am
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism
Sign
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English, Spanish (Fluently), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm too cool for self-summaries 8)
Just kidding.

My profile only at best reflects the me from however long ago since I last edited it.
So, save yourself the trouble and message me.
Ask me about anything you want - I'm friendly and I'm honest/straightforward.
However -
I can be a little blunt, and all with best intentions - but take any whining elsewhere if you think pretended good or appearance is better than the truth (good or bad.)

I am a business major.
I have recently decided that I neither want to live a life where all of my income goes to instant gratification until the next paycheck, nor a life where I spend 50 years working hard to save up just enough to live my final years quietly.
I'm doing something about that. It's going well.

I don't have too much time on my hands* (hehe), but I would like to find someone cool to spend time with once in a while until I start seeing more automation in what I currently do.
What I’m doing with my life
Making progress (with long-term financial plans)
I'm studying business administration at the University of Phoenix.
I also work two jobs, make profit on the side, and volunteer at an awesome little place, helping teach kids music.
I make those hard times into opportunities and things are just getting better and better.
I’m really good at
Well, that's all relative, isn't it?

You could say I'm good at:
computers,
psychology,
video games (what? they're fun!)
driving,
money/business,
playing electric bass,
playing drums,
music,
teaching people stuff,
Actually genuinely caring about people. I really don't get how people can be so cruel and f$#d up. You don't have to be everyone's doormat to perform acts of kindness.

I make for a great friend. Can we count that ?
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no way of proving it, so I wouldn't know.
My face, I guess?
Perhaps that I behave a little differently than most people :P
Or maybe my height. Yes I am actually 6'3" like it says on my profile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite book is Think and Grow Rich. A great book, but honestly, I need to pick up on reading more.
Edit: And now that I did, I have a few more favorite books which I am too lazy/uncaring to include :3 (you could ask)

Ask me about movies.
But I like The Avengers (and other Marvel hero movies,) The Matrix, Catch Me If You Can, and Inception.

Ask me about shows, too. I don't really watch television.
House was cool.
If Dragonball Z counts then yes, I am a nerd (and proud of it)

My favorite band(s) are Dream Theater/Liquid Tension Experiment.
I am mostly into classic and progressive rock, and I generally like a wide variety of artists in the rock genre. I also like some metal bands. It's not all I like, but it's my favorite.
Here's a whole bunch of example artists:
The Beatles, Santana, Aerosmith, Deep Purple, Guns N' Roses, Iron Maiden, Joe Satriani, John 5, King Crimson, Led Zepellin, Steve Vai, Muse, Rush, The Rolling Stones, Fleetwood Mac, America, Queen, The Who, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Metallica, Jimi Hendrix, Boston, Styx, Van Halen, The Eagles, Steely Dan, AC/DC, ZZ Top, Jethro Tull, Black Sabbath, The Doors... To name a few off the top of my head.
Being that I am a musician, I am open-minded when it comes to most music genres. I like to analyze music that I don't hear often, so I'm not extremely picky. I am, however, prone to disliking extremely basic repetitive music, especially if it has terrible lyrical content. c:

I like all sorts of food. I prefer to eat healthy food not loaded with disgusting preservatives, but I often give in to the deliciousness anyway :c
I mean, who doesn't like pizza, burgers, hot dogs, chicken, and other unhealthy stuff? :P
I like Japanese food, though. :) Sushi is delicious.
And all dat fish. So good.
The six things I could never do without
I don't really get the point of this question.
I don't need anything except food, water and sleep, I guess?
Everything else is just material. I may range from being slightly to extremely attached to certain things, but I'd be willing to let them go if some circumstance called for it.

I suppose if I didn't have a strong desire/motivation to become wealthy then that would really suck. Can that one count as half a thing? :P
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. Used to be worse.
Mostly good things, though.
But now also planning... For profit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing whatever I planned on that Friday.
Used to be relaxing.
Now it can vary between business or relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Lol you gotta ask me for those, but a lot of things IF I reason that you are worth investing the trust in.

I can put this here, though. I don't do fwb and I'm not looking for casual sex. And it's not that I don't want it as much as the next guy (because I do lol.) I mean, I'm a healthy young male and that's the norm at this age, as far as I know. I just refuse to go for that.
I want an actual relationship with someone who is compatible with me. Being with someone needs to make sense. If it's nothing but feelings... Well, that just leads nowhere.

I want me and my partner to be a team; really great friends, not just two strangers lustfully attached to one another.
This is a little awkward admitting on a public profile, but, whatever.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–25
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You actually read all of that. That's a lot of time spent reading to not at least invest in me slightly, lol.
Seriously.

But also message me if -

Despite what I've written so far, you:
want to be friends.
would like someone you can confide in to talk to.
want to hang out in person.
like my profile.
are interested in me.
like games, music ( playing it,) movies, road trips, or even business.

Last of all - if you want to talk to me for whatever reason.
I am perfectly willing to be friends with anyone who wishes to be friends. Aside from this, if you are not my type I'll let you know - I don't like wasting peoples' time.

*I like that song lol