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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 31–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 28
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a person who is responsible, honest, successful, with a mutual respect for others. Instead of listing all the qualities i have and share, Id rather get to know someone for who they are as a person. Anyone can list different qualities on a profile, but you don't really know till you meet / talk to them.

I enjoy open communication with people who are around me, I'm not shy, but I'm patient with people who are and have a witty humor to help them open up to me and feel comfortable.

As for activities, exercise wise, I do workout a couple of times during the week when i can, eat a fairly healthy diet but cheat on weekends and enjoy hanging out with friends, going out or staying in and visiting. Winter would be my ski season and doing stuff around the house. More often I'm hosting movie nights, games, or cooking fun dinners when its raining out. Its fun to gout dining as well, i enjoy wine and all kinds of cuisines.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Besides working at a career i enjoy and spending time with my friends and family, I'm continually diversifying my financial portfolio and future. More often then not i like to go on the spontaneous, i only plan for the things that require planning, such as big purchases (housing for example) or travel to a remote destination for an extended period of time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Definitely cooking, and entertaining. I can be good at pretty much anything with enough practice. i do like to play guitar and I'm getting pretty good at that.

Im also a good listener, and try not to give advice unless i know someone is in need of it, or asks for it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I would say my smile, and positive attitude, i dress for the occasion and like to have a good vibe around me, People notice im intuitive to others and can keep a conversation going even during those quiet dull moments.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have recently been getting into Downton Abbey, I'm currently reading the Witching Hour by Anne Rice, i haven't gotten very far with it though. I like all kinds of music, i do not listen to country much, but i don't mind it.

I mentioned i do like to cook, my favorites are Mediterranean, Italian, i like Mexican too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends, My pets, summer, my intellect and humor (does that count as two?), family, and probably my passport...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why online dating sites ask this question
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with friends, going to a Happy Hour or if it works out, getting to know someone new. If it's a long work week staying at home sometimes is a good option, especially if the weather isn't favorable.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i actually tried online dating :)
You should message me if
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you signed up for online dating hoping to find someone who's company you can enjoy and get to know for a longterm relationship, not casual dating, or games.