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54 Salem, VA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 44–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 21
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English, French (Poorly), Yiddish (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm not looking for a booty call. (I am in an open-marriage) Coffee/Drink first and chat and go our separate ways and chat some more. Then activities together, get to know each other and if we really click then sex...not sex first. I'm not into threesomes or anything too kinky. Sorry....I have to trust you and really be into you. I value myself too much to just hop in the sack. I like long term relationships with meaning. I'm well-educated, classy and extremely selective and exclusive. I am not fond of men who are sleeping with multiple women. I'm not even fond of sharing to be honest. So, if you share in desiring someone who gives and likes to get lots of attention, check me out. Otherwise, you should probably move on. I also like to be taken on romantic getaways and trips. You have to be able to go out and do things in public. And, I'd like to see you more than once a month, if possible. So, if you can't do this.I'm not your gal.
What I’m doing with my life
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Raising Kids
Trying to travel more; so I need someone to take me away to exciting places! Seriously, this is what I want more than anything! If you have a house in the South of France and/or condo in NYC...even better!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
having fun
recognizing bullshit
not responding to people who are outta shape and lie about their ages! It's obvious guys...give me a break please!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my eyes and smile
toned body
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
yes many favorite books: Let the Great World Spin, Interpreter of Maladies, Snow Falling on Cedars, The Shipping News, The Blue Notebook
Not crazy about musicals. Love dramas (Off Broadway), Love Food! (love fresh green beans, fresh spinach), dark chocolate anything! Grilled seafood is a favorite. Love fine dining! Haute Cuisine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
and running
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't believe in typical
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It's all about me. If you have other lovers forget it. Just need one romantic, thoughtful guy.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Will share your real name because I don't go out with strangers
have time to get to know me and spend time with me, before jumping in the sack
(If you're just looking for sex, get a hooker. I'm not a free hooker)
you are disease free, use rubbers
you don't lie (that includes about your age, marital status, # of kids, etc...)
you are not bi-sexual
you are in fantastic shape mentally and physically
you are not stuffy
you are handsome
you are well-educated and smart (and can spell)
you are financially successful
you like to travel with friends and treat them
you have no criminal record
you are open and share
you are married (preferably an open-marriage)(or single) and only want ONE lover
aren't into huge breasts (because mine are just average)
you dress nicely (no nerdy shoes or high waisted pants)
you are a good communicator
you are super thoughtful
you are attentive!
(If you can't divulge your real name and meet in public then please don't bother contacting me)
PS you don't lie. I'm very intuitive, so be careful