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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Today – 11:38am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Dutch (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm new in town, and a long way from home.

Looking for a few new friends, maybe with benefits if there's mad chemistry.

Filter: I'm in a flexible partnership with my amazing and magical sweetheart CorporiSapient..

Peripatetic. Formerly Iterant. Polyamorous. Perpetual Polyglot.

Joyful. Fun. At times hilarious. Empathic. Curious.

I used to think I was INFP.

Now I realize that I am simply an intuitive extrovert who gets overwhelmed in crowds. So ENFP.

Born and raised in Northern California. Spent my early sturm und drang adulthood teaching English in Berlin, Germany and returned to Northern California for a career change, night law school, home ownership, two midlife crises and a divorce.

...all that was solid melted into the air....

...dizziness was followed by weirdness then giddiness as I slowly entered the strange world of workshops, potlucks, dance parties, meetup groups, and internet dating....

....and I've never felt more alive.....throughout the elation and heartbreak, things just seem to get lighter....happier....what a wild ride!

...and now....I'm traveling around the world while staying connected to the Bay Area and would love to meet like-hearted souls, fellow travelers, Wwoofers, adventurers, radicals, free spirits, artists, elves, feys, woodland nymphs, dancers, unicorns, and other magical forest denizens.

I often make new friends through this site, and when that happens, my life is all the richer for it.

And sometimes the Universe sends someone magical my way, and we create magic together! This happened quite recently, in fact....
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Dancing. Singing. Camping. Learning Japanese. Reading Dutch. Hiking. Soaking. Traveling. And yes, processing...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning foreign languages. Massage. Empathy. Being present. Owning my feelings and staying on my side of the fence.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My blue eyes and my calming presence. Broad shoulders,
People who know me well have said I have "clean energy".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Rumi. Hafiz.
Kundera. Bukowski. Miler. Nin.
Dr. Who
Big Blue Marble (my childhood ended when they cancelled that program)
Mark Twain. Jonathan Swift. Oscar Wilde
Sex at Dawn and similar works of nonfiction.
Currently enthralled by "1491"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Juicer. iPhone. Laptop. Coconut oil. Passport. Being.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the time, walking about in New Delhi, I was accused of resembling an Indian Movie Star.

Connection and autonomy.....autonomy and connection.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
noticing FOMO but not attaching to it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like samurai movies.
I am 2.7 percent Neanderthal.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...if you walk into a room and start to make things more beautiful with your presence..... want connection, compersion, companionship, chocolate, community, cuddling, or and/all of the above...

...if you have a hall pass you'd like to show me... live through the heart..... live your 100 %

...if you get that poly is not about random hook-ups....being "friends with benefits" starts with friendship first.