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30 M Womelsdorf, PA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:09pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
New to the Berks/Lebanon county area. Although I admit being a fish out of water, I am enjoying the challenging journey living in rural PA. I am a music therapist and I spend much of my life engaged in music experiences including a membership in a local choral society. I am fortunate to be able to play several instruments including the Trumpet and I admit to being a classical music fan. In the fall, spring, and summer, I am an avid bicyclist, riding my bike to work practically every day and I enjoy hikes and regular exercise. My personality type is an iSTJ, but I crave new and exciting connections. I love travel and exotic cuisine and I occasionally moonlight as a cook. My friends describe me as driven, smart, and an "over thinker". I completed my masters degree and would like to hopefully work towards a PhD, but I am in no rush.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently moonlighting as a full-time music therapist at a non-profit children's home. The work is very rewarding but definitely challenges my clinical skills. I am a novice researcher and I write songs on the side. I am slowly adjusting to central Pa, learning how to be productive and ambitious in a rural enviornment. I am also a member of a choral society in Lebanon and scheduling music on Sundays for a church service.
I’m really good at
Over-thinking, cooking creatively (I have cooked all kinds of exotic game), writing and performing music, listening to friends issues, and conducting research.
The first things people usually notice about me
My wide array of knowledge. Many of my friends call me 'doctor' even though I do not have a Phd. I am not shallow, but I have been told that I have nice eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I enjoy reading non-fictional books pertaining to music, mental disorders, history, psychology, and autism. Although I do not watch much television, I enjoy comedies and sitcoms such as 'How I met your mother,' 'Big bang theory', 'Bones', and many others. I enjoy most genres of music minus rap and twangy country. I am a lover of all foods and I enjoy eating ethnic and exotic cuisines. I love chinese, Indian, Korean, Thai, Vietnamese, Italian, Greek, Ashkenazic or Kosher food, Middle Eastern food, Mexican, Latin, You get the gist. I am an avid cook and I enjoy learning about spices and recipes so I can master exotic dishes for fun.
The six things I could never do without
1. Trumpet
2. Guitar
3. Laptop
4. phone
5. water
6. food
7. music of any kind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future. I think about the things that I wish to accomplish and dream about my professional and personal life. I also think a lot about the populations for which I work. I also think about how to find the good in everything. I think that I think too much lol
On a typical Friday night I am
Either finding new clubs and restaurants to explore or reading an exciting book or finding an interesting professional article. Or I talk to old friends from college and try to keep in touch with my gang.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am an exotic eater.....enough said!

I accidently pantsed a 100 + member marching band when I was a freshman in HS. I lost weight, and down they went...The incident led to many new conversations and friends, so it worked out in the long run.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–37
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are looking to meet someone who values intellect over looks. Message me if you value honesty and creativity.

If you like down-to-earth swash-buckling music geeks who highlight as executive chef's on a saturday night (I am getting pretty good at cooking)

If you like guys who don't have to fake a topical conversation, I will either know it or just owe up to it lol

Intelligence and class is a must!