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Medler83

31 Lewes, DE Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 2
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I recently moved back home to Delaware after a year in Pennsylvania. I have been back in the Delaware beach region and I am getting comfortable with being back. I am reconnecting with old friends, building new connections, and letting the waves take me. I am an entrepreneur, a musician, therapist, artist, and instructor. If you are interested in learning more about me, send me a message!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I own my own music therapy private practice that provides music-based therapeutic services in both Kent and Sussex counties. I also work during the school-year as a substitute teacher/instructor, I am on staff at a local music school/studio, and I work PT as a sales associate. I guess you can say I keep myself busy lol
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing every instrument known to man except the Viola, Flute, and every other classical string instrument.

Songwriting- I have written a few songs and jingles which I have entered in contests

Cooking- Unless I get distracted and burn something.

Listening to people-The arc of being a good therapist is listening (so my professors told me), so I have learned that listening skills can only do a person good.

Persistence- You need it if you want to be a musician or therapist.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes-They are pretty blue
My ability to listen
My ever-changing facial hair (I am currently clean-shaven) lol
My reserved demeanor
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Non-fiction novels, Political books, Stephen King, Historical books, self-help
Movies: Silence of the Lambs (I love psychology), One flew over the cookoos nest, Girl Interrupted, A beautiful mind, horror films, historical films such as Frost/Nixon, Charlie Wilson's War, Walk the Line, Ray, Enemy at the Gates, etc. musicals (yes I like them) and comedies such as american pie, Adam Sandler, or any classic 80's film.

Music: Most genres except explicit rap and twangy country/bluegrass music, although I keep an open mind. I am a lover of British pop/rock and consider Lennon/McCarney my songwriting inspiration. I am a jazz/blues and classical performer as a vocalist and trumpeter and consider composers such as Debussy, Ravel, Rachmaninov, Bizet, and Chopin my favorite composers. I love jazz trumpeters like Louis Armstrong, Chet Baker, Wynton Marsalis, and Allen Vizutti

Food: I'll eat anything. Say no more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Friends
2. Family
3. My instruments
4. My new car (kinda need one to get to work)
5. My cellphone (I hate to admit it, but what the heck)
6. A good non-fiction or psychology book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Mrs. right, how to be a better person, self-awareness, which bills I need to pay next, what I need to save for next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typically, I work till 9:30 PM, so when I do go out it's usually to hear my friends bands play or if I am playing with a band.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I live with a parent while I save enough for my new home. I decided that paying rent is like leasing a car.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are an adventurous eater and not afraid to admit it

No crazy cat ladies!!!

If you like fine wine and deep conversations.

If you are open-minded and willing to shine in your quirkiness

If you have a passion for museums, zoos, concerts, and everything artsy and geeky.

Someone with class and politeness is required!

If you are interested in state parks, biking, jogging, canoeing, and kayaking.

If you know what a music therapist is or have questions

If you are responsible

No Married women!!

If you have the urge to do so

Just for the hell of it