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33 M Hialeah, FL

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Last Online
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6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and very serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), Afrikaans (Okay), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hi there!

I always find it difficult to write about myself.
I'm a true gemini, which means one day I think one way, and the other day another way, which makes me rewrite this profile like endlessly :-)
I can be a big talker, I believe relationships rest on communication, and is very enjoyable!

I'm still old fashioned, believe in faithfulness, kindness, love, trust, monogamous relationships (between one man and one woman).
A lot of gems in this guy, if you can just get past the initial contact.
I say that, because I always have some problems initially, for people to get to know me, because I'm not your ordinary Miamian male. (Usually after a while most people get comfortable with me though...)

I seem to scare off some people because I'm pretty direct.
I believe in speaking your mind, being open, being real.
Not being negative, but being truthful.

I am matching people who are more laid back, and want to enjoy life, rather than those who are motivated achievers.
I'm not lazy, I have a job which I love, and a car.

Most of my way of thinking is Biblically inspired.
I am not looking for someone who's not into God, or who is not a Christian, so please keep that in mind.

I dislike fakeness, and masks very much, and usually see right through them.
I don't go away from problems, but face them, and overcome them.

I come from Belgium, but live for 7 years in S-Florida. I love it here.
Love the weather, love the people.
I took on a hobby, riding scooters and motor vehicles, visiting places in FL. Also bought some snorkeling gear, to have fun in the water. Need a partner to go with me.

I'm also from time to time in the library, on the internet, and working odd hours.

I also try to engage in church activities, as that's where my identity lies, in growing more into the Lord, and sharing my knowledge with the people around me.

Miami is full of "I like you, but you don't like me"'s, and "You like me, but I don't like you"'s if you get what I mean? Not easy to find the right one.
And I thought I was an easy person... lol...

I'm currently separated, for 10 months, and in the final stage of the divorce process (just waiting for the hearing). No kids.

Not trying to sound cocky, but I am pretty smart though, moldable (if that word exists, meaning I can still improve myself), humble, loving, and faithful.

Initially I'm hoping to find someone I can talk to, chat with. Someone willing to set her time aside to work on relationships; not expect the relationship to be shallow.
If you're serious about finding a partner online, please, be serious about replying emails.
If you don't like sex on a first (or second or third) date, but want to get to know someone better, spend some time chatting online!

Anyone willing to do that (set aside all other things, to work on a relationship), has learned what it is to get to a guy's heart, because it shows your interest and effort.

I'm tall, and thin built, and recently started some light workouts.
I will probably never get athletic, but I'm improving myself bit by bit.
I already got a 5 pack ladies! Just working on splitting that last pack to get a full 6-pack! :)
What I’m doing with my life
That's a very hard question.
I'm a thinker, and I'm seldomly happy with what I achieve; cause it could always be done better.

I'm a hard worker. Not too much into the money hype though, money comes and goes, but true love is so much harder to find.
Still trying to decide what to do with my life, but counseling is something I'm considering...

Like a gemini, my interests are all over the place.
From learning music instruments, to riding motorcycles (but last year has been terrible, a lot of rain), to hanging out on the beach (preferably with company), seeing movies, going to church, learn about God, and how to live a life that's more than just this earthly life; storing up treasures in heaven...
I’m really good at
They call me a jack of all trades, but a master of none.
Nevertheless, I believe my strength lies in loving a person, and being faithful. Both in work, family, and my relationship with God for almost 20 years now, yay! :)
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall, (dark) blond hair; European looking, green eyes (and thin too, but I'm working on getting some exercise)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love funky world music like Zawinul, Donald Byrd, Herbie Hancock (that's jazz/fusion/funk, but also disco from the late seventies),
I am also into modern Techno (armin van buuren; Kyau and Albert, and a whole bunch of other Holland electronic Dj's);

I also like some live worship music (meant to worship, not meant as songs), like Morningstar, and Kent Henry; some of the oldest, as well as the latest Hillsongs aren't too bad.

Spiritual music, music pulled from heaven, spontaneous worship,...

Almost anything,
little seafood, don't like mushrooms.
Prefer white meat.

I love science fiction movies,
and lots of Japanese Animation (too many to count).

Lately I go once and a while to the movies to look at a 3d movie, just for the experience;

I also loved Christian movies like Transformations, and To Hell And Back!

The Call, The Final Quest, and a bit Bible;
Despite me loving God, I do need some polishing up on the bible reading; not too good on that one I'm afraid :(
Mostly internet blogs, forums and articles!
The six things I could never do without
Aside from the necessities like Food,Bed,Bathroom, with working shower, money, job etc (not particularly in order of importance);

Things I personally hold in high esteem (in order of importance):
- God
- Other half/Family/friends (social time)
- Internet and laptop
- Animation/cartoons/movies
- Scooter/motorcycles
- Sunshine, and being out of the house (as much as I like being in it, I like being out of it as well).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Changes all the time.
Lately I've felt God tugging my heart to study up on the prophetic, and grow in it.
The important things I do are on a small scale, and usually one at a time.

Aside from finding a partner, I am mainly interested in scooters, motorcycles... My thoughts are all over the place though!

Mostly God, relationships, love, friendships, and learning all kinds of things...
On a typical Friday night I am
Just working.... (on duty; ouch) :(

On my day off (not on friday), I could be watching movies, rehearsing music, in the library, or exploring the neighborhood, just being out, in search for new things; or going to church activities like prayer groups, discussion groups, church services, .... and so on....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm less comfortable around a lot of new faces. I find that I can better be myself in a 'one-on-one' environment, or with fewer well known, and good friends.

I'm less superficial. I rather tell someone the truth in their faces, than hide it with a sweet lie.
Because I care about the person, not because I try to be mean...
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 26–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have time on your hands, sometimes get bored, and want a chat buddy.
Are the type that likes communicating.

You are serious about finding a partner, or, in need of a friend to support you.
Breakups are painful, but regardless you need to start some day.
Having a friend (penpal, chatfriend for a season) is always nice.

I prefer to hang around 'good' people. People who're honest, kind, loving, gentle, love the Lord, seek to do what's right; genuine and true.