I always find it difficult to write about myself.
I'm a true gemini, which means one day I think one way, and the other day another way, which makes me rewrite this profile like endlessly :-)
I can be a big talker, I believe relationships rest on communication, and is very enjoyable!
I'm still old fashioned, believe in faithfulness, kindness, love, trust, monogamous relationships (between one man and one woman).
A lot of gems in this guy, if you can just get past the initial contact.
I say that, because I always have some problems initially, for people to get to know me, because I'm not your ordinary Miamian male. (Usually after a while most people get comfortable with me though...)
I seem to scare off some people because I'm pretty direct.
I believe in speaking your mind, being open, being real.
Not being negative, but being truthful.
I am matching people who are more laid back, and want to enjoy life, rather than those who are motivated achievers.
I'm not lazy, I have a job which I love, and a car.
Most of my way of thinking is Biblically inspired.
I am not looking for someone who's not into God, or who is not a Christian, so please keep that in mind.
I dislike fakeness, and masks very much, and usually see right through them.
I don't go away from problems, but face them, and overcome them.
I come from Belgium, but live for 7 years in S-Florida. I love it here.
Love the weather, love the people.
I took on a hobby, riding scooters and motor vehicles, visiting places in FL. Also bought some snorkeling gear, to have fun in the water. Need a partner to go with me.
I'm also from time to time in the library, on the internet, and working odd hours.
I also try to engage in church activities, as that's where my identity lies, in growing more into the Lord, and sharing my knowledge with the people around me.
Miami is full of "I like you, but you don't like me"'s, and "You like me, but I don't like you"'s if you get what I mean? Not easy to find the right one.
And I thought I was an easy person... lol...
I'm currently separated, for 10 months, and in the final stage of the divorce process (just waiting for the hearing). No kids.
Not trying to sound cocky, but I am pretty smart though, moldable (if that word exists, meaning I can still improve myself), humble, loving, and faithful.
Initially I'm hoping to find someone I can talk to, chat with. Someone willing to set her time aside to work on relationships; not expect the relationship to be shallow.
If you're serious about finding a partner online, please, be serious about replying emails.
If you don't like sex on a first (or second or third) date, but want to get to know someone better, spend some time chatting online!
Anyone willing to do that (set aside all other things, to work on a relationship), has learned what it is to get to a guy's heart, because it shows your interest and effort.
I'm tall, and thin built, and recently started some light workouts.
I will probably never get athletic, but I'm improving myself bit by bit.
I already got a 5 pack ladies! Just working on splitting that last pack to get a full 6-pack! :)