I always find it difficult to write about myself.
I'm a true gemini, which means one day I think one way, and the other day another way, which makes me rewrite this profile like endlessly :-)
I can be a big talker, I believe relationships rest on communication, and is very enjoyable!
I'm still old fashioned, believe in faithfulness, kindness, love, trust, monogamous relationships (between one man and one woman).
A lot of gems in this guy, if you can just get past the initial contact.
I seem to scare off a lot of Caucasian Americans, as well as Latins, because I'm pretty direct.
I believe in speaking your mind, being open, being real.
I am matching people who are laid back, or who are thinking somewhat the same as I.
Seemingly people who are direct as well, cause conflict with me; so if you're direct, I hope we get along well.
Most of my way of thinking is Biblically inspired.
If you're not into God, christianity, chances are we'll clash on a number of fields.
I dislike fakeness, and masks. I don't go away from problems, but face them, and overcome them.
Only then I find I can dig deeper into a relationship, and hopefully establish a solid one.
The principle of digging out problems, rather than throwing sand over it (out of sight is out of the way-kind of popular mentality), probably suits me.
When done in love, it is a very attractive and good trait to have.
I come from Belgium, but live for 7 years in S-Florida. I love it here.
Love the weather, love the people.
I took on a hobby, riding scooters and motor vehicles, visiting places in FL.
I'm also from time to time in the library, on the internet, and working odd hours.
I also try to engage in church activities, as that's where my identity lies, in growing more into the Lord, and sharing my knowledge with the people around me.
Aside from that, I find it very hard to find a partner. Miami is full of "I like you, but you don't like me"'s, and "You like me, but I don't like you"'s if you get what I mean?
I'm currently separated, for 9 months, and in the final stage of the divorce process. No kids.
Young of heart, not a puppy, but neither someone who's portraying to be advanced of his years.
I'm smart though, moldable (yes, I can still improve myself), loving, and faithful.
Initially I'm hoping to find someone I can talk to, chat with. Someone willing to set her time aside to work on relationships; not expect the relationship to be shallow, and spend a lot of time in her work.
If you're a career woman, you're not for me.
Anyone willing to do that (set aside all other things, to work on a relationship), has learned what it is to get to a guy's heart, because it shows your interest and effort.
Anyone prioritizing career, might be just as willing to get a relationship started, but has prioritized her work before relationships, thus lowering her chances on finding a good guy, and building memories together.
Anyone skipping relationships and building memories, and is going straight for the physical aspect, will end up with chemistry relationships, that die out as soon as the chemistry dies out!
Guys usually look to submissive, simple, loving girls,
Girls usually want to explore their world, and become complex; which (aside from improving their looks) really does not attract this guy's attention.
Miamian girls are gorgeous, but IMHO, it needs to go, with a pure and loving heart.
So, work on your hearts girls, not only on your looks (just like I try to work on my body a bit)!
I'm tall, and thin built, and recently started some light workouts.
I will probably never get athletic, but I'm improving myself bit by bit.
I already got a 5 pack ladies! Just working on splitting that last pack to get a full 6-pack! :)