I have and for always will hate writing descriptions of myself. I think it has something to do with observer bias, if there is anyone you shouldn't trust to describe me, its me. Trust me. I'll tell you I'm awesome, and mean every word of it. I might even be right some days. I think I'm smart, funny, sexy, amusing, comforting (insert a long litany of positive adjectives here), but again, I'm biased. I have to live with myself, and if I don't say nice things about myself I'll have to become very cross with myself, and then no one wins.
I find myself editing this this constantly, I think its the fact that usually as soon as I state something in concrete terms, I start to question myself, because I hate certainty, especially in self identification. We all change so much and so quickly that I almost fear saying that I am any specific way for fear of someone reading something I wrote in the past and those words no longer applying. Does that make sense?
I generally only message people who mutually rate each other highly, I know most people out there aren't poly and I dislike bothering people who aren't poly friendly.