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Meeqe

29 M Bellingham, WA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
***This profile is in need of an overhaul, it has been a few years since I went through and updated. Stay tuned for more 11/19/13***

I have and for always will hate writing descriptions of myself. I think it has something to do with observer bias, if there is anyone you shouldn't trust to describe me, its me. Trust me. I'll tell you I'm awesome, and mean every word of it. I might even be right some days. I think I'm smart, funny, sexy, amusing, comforting (insert a long litany of positive adjectives here), but again, I'm biased. I have to live with myself, and if I don't say nice things about myself I'll have to become very cross with myself, and then no one wins.

I find myself editing this this constantly, I think its the fact that usually as soon as I state something in concrete terms, I start to question myself, because I hate certainty, especially in self identification. We all change so much and so quickly that I almost fear saying that I am any specific way for fear of someone reading something I wrote in the past and those words no longer applying. Does that make sense?

I generally only message people who mutually rate each other highly, I know most people out there aren't poly and I dislike bothering people who aren't poly friendly.
What I’m doing with my life
I also got married to a wonderful woman 7 years ago, Ambershanks . She may be the best thing that ever happened to me, and we work wonderfully well together. This would probably be a good place to mention that we are poly. Don't let that scare you off, we don't bite, we promise. Unless you ask. In which case arrangements might be able to be made. However on that note and for those of you in the know, I'm not unicorn hunting, just looking for someone to spend some enjoyable time with, the exact details to be determined. Just friends would be awesome, actually, there are potential pressures to dating and some days I think all I'm really for is another cool person to hang out with.
I’m really good at
Memorizing trivial details, preferably en masse. Yes, I'm a gamer. How could you tell?

I really enjoy having long conversations. I love talking to people, especially people that I disagree with. I think how people are different is frequently more interesting that how we're alike. I know what I'm like and I'm perfectly willing to talk about that, however I what to know what YOU'RE like, what you think, and what you're going with your life.

I'm great at sarcasm and snarking. Watching good movies is fun and all, but making fun of bad movies is so much better. I've been on a huge foreign movie kick lately as well, seen anything you can recommend?
The first things people usually notice about me
My attitude. I"m very confident, but my views are far enough from mainstream (not that there is necessarily anything wrong with mainstream ideas, if they are good ones) that I frequently get asked (or yelled at, or confronted or some other strong reaction) why I say what I do. Given that I think its vital to a well lived life to understand your own reasons for being how you are, the question of why I think the way I do can be a long answer.

The other thing people tend to notice about me is my eyes, they are very very blue, and I think I get more comments about them than any other physical feature.

My hair is also shorter than in my profile pictures, its still long but only shoulder length these days. I'll get new pics up soon, I promise!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite movie is, still and always, Star Wars. It was one of the first movies I ever saw, and loved it ever since, even after Lucas ruined the series with the new movies. I also enjoy most modern sci-fi and fantasy movies out there. Want details? You should message me.

Favorite books: I'm going to have to go with Lord of the Rings for nostalgia, I had them read to me as bed-time stories as a kid. I also enjoy George R.R. Martins Saga of Fire and Ice Series, I think that its some of the best written fantasy series of all time.

Music: I like anything with a good beat. I've been listening to lots of Alestorm, Juno Reactor and Turisas lately, but my all time favorites would have to be Tool and NiN (clique I know, but I think that both Reznor and Maynard are genius). Synphonic metal has been a new discovery for me, and Epica has made it into my regular rotation.

Food: Spicier the better.
The six things I could never do without
Only 6? I actually really hate this question, so it gets no answer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Philosophy and religion. These two things have shaped our world in ways most people never even think about, and the more I learn about why people think, feel, act, believe and love the way they do, the more human history starts to take a coherent shape. Which is nice, because its crazy place we live in. It seems strange how much of it we take for granted, even though so many things could be so different if just one or two things had been different in the past. Counterfactual history is one of my favorite conversation topics, mainly because it gets everyone talking about how and why things would be different.

Also nerdy/geeky stuff. But you don't want to hear about that. Unless your also a nerd/geek, in which case you should definitely message me about it. I'll be interested, I promise. The more obscure the better.

Occasionally I consider that I frequently spend copious amounts of time engaging in long winded verbage in response to queries for personal information that may or may not be adequately summarized into concise forms such as "Yes", "No", and "Of course I like Sushi."
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends, frequently at Rumours or a friends house. While I enjoy intellectual pursuits quite a bit, I think getting out and enjoying all the world has to offer is vital, too many people shelter themselves away from real world experience, preferring to read about something rather than do it. I think thats silly, and those people should be grabbed, slapped in a bar stool, given a round or two, then forced to talk about something irrelevant. Because the easiest way to find out what someone really thinks is clearly booze. /sarcasm off
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That secretly I like being a nice guy. Shhh! Don't tell anyone! It'd ruin my image. Not sure exactly how, but it sounds good right?

I'm also willing to admit that I'll try almost anything once, twice if it was fun.

Some days I like listening to pop music. Seriously.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You should message me. Initiative and aggression are two of my favorite traits in people. Anyone who can take the first step has already made a favorable impression.

Or if you want to. I like talking to everyone. I especially enjoy talking to others who are/have been polyamorous, hearing how others have made it work gives me more insight into how I might live my own life. If nothing else poly people tend to have good stories. Of course if you aren't poly and have good stories, I'd love to hear from you too.