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MelByTheLake

37 / F / straight / Single

Oakland, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Political / Government
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English

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I am fun, kind, and intelligent.

My Self-Summary

I was born in the Caribbean, but I've lived in the Bay Area most of my life. I spent a year and a half in Boston, which I enjoyed, but I'm happy to be back in California. I may come across as reserved, but in reality I'm quite silly. I'm very close with my family. I spend a lot of time with them, as well as my friends.

I would like to meet somebody who is intelligent and considerate. I'm interested in someone who likes to relax and enjoy life. I'm looking for someone to have fun with. That includes exploring the Bay Area and beyond, staying in and enjoying each other's company, and definitely lots of laughing. I love a man with a silly sense of humor.

If you think you're a good match, drop me a line. Perhaps we can meet for coffee.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a policy analyst for the state. I currently work on renewable energy policy. Government bureaucracy and politics can be a pain, but I ultimately find it to be interesting and rewarding work.

I’m really good at

Making friends
Dancing
Baking

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile.

The six things I could never do without

Family
Friends
Chocolate
iPod
My computer
A good book

On a typical Friday night I am

Enjoying happy hour with friends.

You should message me if

you are interested in meeting up.