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42 Alameda, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:17pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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IS IT REALLY THAT HARD TO MEET SOMEONE COOL!!! I guess it is and that's why we are all here reading profiles.

Me? I am a mellow, down to earth guy who can be a homebody, hanging out and cuddling. But I like to have fun, get out into nature, go see live music, go out to dinner, or just go on an adventure. I like sports, working out and being healthy. I really like being a Dad and my son is very important to me. I have been teaching guitar and playing music for a living for 15 years so music is very important to me.

I am looking for someone who knows what they want, or at least has a good idea. Someone who takes care of themselves physically as well as mentally/emotionally. Someone who is fun, lighthearted, positive, and one that can be romantic. Someone who is kind, honest, compassionate, loving, affectionate, down to earth, smart, sharp, and can communicate how they feel. Comfortable, secure, mellow, aware, and adaptable.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am living my life, trying to be a good father, teaching and playing music. Working to explore and improve myself emotionally and mentally. I try to live as healthy as possible and try to have fun doing it. I am trying to meet someone that brings positive things to my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music. I have been playing music most of my life and teaching for 15 years. It's my passion and I love sharing it. Communicating, recognizing how I feel, telling people how I feel within a reasonable amount of time, and in a tactful way I think. Being affectionate, cuddling, massages.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know, you'd have to ask them. But I think I am quick with a smile and mellow. A little shy at first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like music, history, and self exploration books. The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Passionate Marriage. like all sorts of movies and TV series: Almost Famous, The Girl With The Dragon Tatoo, The Blues Brothers, The Zero Effect, Fletch, The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, The Sopranos, The Wire, ect... I love all kinds of music but I love most kinds of rock music: Hendrix, Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, The Beatles, Chili Peppers, Pearl Jam, Ben Harper, Sly Stone, James Brown, Metallica, Queens of The Stone Age, Wilco, The Black Crowes, The Black Keys, Black Sabbath, Tool, Deftones, Al Green, Sunny Day Real Estate, Quicksand, Jeff Buckley, Smashing Pumpkins, Soundgarden, The Mother Hips, I could go on forever...I like most kinds of food, but I haven't really gotten into middle eastern food although I am open to trying anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son, at least one guitar, t-shirt & jeans, a nice bed, good friends, optimism
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Trying not to think too much and enjoying the present moment as much as possible.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with my boy, hanging out with friends, checking out some live music, or watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've never been to Burning Man....I am an open book and honest, but private too, so you'd have to ask me something somewhat specific directly or at least give me a general topic.
You should message me if
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You like what you read I suppose! Or it piques you interest.