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Melly82

27 / F / straight / Single

Singapore, Singapore

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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I am superpositive, sweet, and expressive.

My Self-Summary

Sweet and sassy. Romantic. Idealistic - some days I want to save the world! Warm-hearted. Generous. Friendly. Adventurous. Spontaneous. Superpositive. Down-to-earth. Candid - what you see is what you get! (Sometimes) offbeat sense of humour. (Usually) easy to please. Good conversationalist, great listener. A loyal friend. Love books, movies, listening to music, the great outdoors, dogs, yoghurt and coffee.

I'm into running, scuba diving, trekking, cycling, bowling, playing card, board and word games, especially Taboo, bridge and Scrabble, reading, especially humour, watching movies (anything but horror!), and lazing on the beach. And I love sharing my hobbies with that special someone!

I believe in living simply and counting your blessings whatever the situation. I'm trying to live a good life and put others first (not always easy!). I love myself and I really really love my life - I'd say I've got everything but the guy! I can be a little random at times, and occasionally inane, but I'm almost always smiley! ;) All that, and then some. You'll have to find out the rest for yourself =P

What I’m doing with my life

- Finding a work-life balance. Work hard, play harder!
- Travelling as much as I can - I'd say I'm off to a good start with 4 trips this year already =P
- Doing what I can to make the world a better place
- Looking for the right guy to share my (already) wonderful life with! ;)

I’m really good at

- Planning and organising. Making to-do lists and ticking EVERYTHING off, one by one. This counts as fun for me =P

- Listening and being a shoulder to cry on. Lending a helping hand. If you need help of any kind, I'm your girl. (I'll help or die trying, anyway.)

- Finding the positives in every situation. I did say I was 'superpositive', right? ;) My motto (or one of them) happens to also be my blood type: B positive! Heheh. Maybe I should add puns to this list... =P

- Hugs. *Hug* See? I think I'd die if I couldn't give and get hugs. *Hug* There I go again...

- Oh, and getting lost. Don't ask.

The first things people usually notice about me

- "Wah, your eyelashes very long ah!... Are they real?" And for the record, yes, they are.

- My tan. Yes, I'm naturally dark, yes, I love being outdoors, yes, I absolutely love my tan too, thank you very much.

- My sweet smile ;) and sunshiney personality ;)))))

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite Books:
The Time Traveler's Wife, The Solitaire Mystery, Gone With The Wind, Little Women, Watership Down, Neverwhere, The Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy (Books 1-5!), Starship Titanic, all the Twilight and Harry Potter books!!!

Favorite Movies:
Forrest Gump, The Full Monty, Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind, Love Me If You Dare, Romeo + Juliet, Juno, Gladiator, Bring It On, 300, Zoolander, Galaxy Quest, Down With Love, Ironman, Sister Act, School of Rock, Pan's Labyrinth, Love Actually, Maybe Baby, My Best Friend's Wedding, (500) Days of Summer, all the Harry Potter movies!!!

Favorite TV Shows (What the hey, might as well do this too):
CSI, Heroes, Grey's Anatomy, Ugly Betty, Malcolm In The Middle, Scrubs, Friends (I know, I know, but I still love 'em), Coupling, Mr Bean, Desperate Housewives, House, The Office, Whose Line Is It Anyway?, Wheel Of Fortune (heehee) =P Invader Zim!!!!!!!!! ('I love this show'!!!)

Favorite Music (This keeps changing, sometimes I can't keep up!):
The Great Spy Experiment, Third Eye Blind, Corinne May, Switchfoot, Jars of Clay, Seven Day Jesus, Goo Goo Dolls, Jimmy Eat World, Lifehouse, Damien Rice, Franz Ferdinand, Kings Of Convenience, Electrico, The Killers, Muse, Snow Patrol, Coldplay, Sondre Lerche, Take That, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Sugar Ray, Collective Soul, Death Cab For Cutie, The Magic Numbers, Stars, Joshua Radin, The Observatory, Regina Spektor

Favourite Food:
Mom's beef stew ;), bubble tea, roasted chestnuts, potatoes cooked any way, chicken, macadamias, cheesecake, brownies, waffles. And I'd never say no to a tall glass of hot vanilla at Coffee Bean - it's better than... um, chocolate =P

The six things I could never do without

My notebook (yes it's the good ol' pen and paper kind, and it's full of lists, random scribbling and the occasional unrecognizable doodle), wet wipes (seriously, I can't live without these), handphone, my family, friends and of course, God (not in order of priority...)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life, the universe and everything =P

On a typical Friday night I am

Either involved in some church activity or chilling out with friends over dinner or a good movie. Or a good board game. If it's interesting enough, I could play all night... or until we all get so tired we lose the ability to add up our points with any degree of accuracy (this has happened before, yeah).

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have a thing for strong jawlines, guitar-playing dudes and AC guys =P Yeah... seriously.

You should message me if

- You have a nice jawline, play the guitar or are an AC guy (and love being one).

- You enjoy coffee and good conversation. Or just need a little sunshine in your life ;)

- You're someone who knows what he wants in life and aren't afraid to go for it. I find humour, honesty, compassion and quiet confidence very attractive in a guy!

My ultimate wish list? A committed Christian man who really puts God first. A good communicator who is fluent in English. A guy who takes good care of himself and loves the outdoors. Best if you fit all three! ;)

Seriously though, this pretty much describes my dream guy. C'mon babe, you gotta be out there somewhere! So if this sounds like you (or if you really really really want this to sound like you), then take a chance and get in touch with me. Who knows? It could be you ;)