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Melvin-

41 / M / straight / Single

Bloomington, Minnesota

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Political / Government
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English, Other (Okay)

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I am Lost, Found, and Confused.

My Self-Summary

I've learned that
no matter what happens,
or how bad it seems today,
life does go on.

I've learned that
regardless of your relationship
with your parents,
you'll miss them
when they're gone.

I've learned that
making a "living"
is not the same thing as
making a "life."

I've learned that
life sometimes gives you a second,
third, or even a forth chance.

I've learned that
if you pursue happiness,
it will elude you

I've learned that
if you focus on your
best friends, the needs of others,
your work, and doing your best,
happiness WILL find you.

I've learned that
whenever I decide something
with an open heart
I usually make the right decision.

I've learned that
even when I have pains,
I don't have to be one,
although, I usually am.

I've learned that
people will forget what you said,
people will forget what you did,
but they will NEVER forget
how you made them feel...

I've learned that
I still have a lot to learn.

What I’m doing with my life

Started a new job that I really like. Looking to meet some new people.

I’m really good at

Identifying needs of others and helping them obtain them

The first things people usually notice about me

That I am a good listener I am a litte shy so I let others do most of the talking

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Movies The Big Hit, River Runs Through it, For love of the Game, Glengarry Glen Ross. Music The Doors Steve Miller ZZ Top Bryan Adams amd Neil Diamond. Steak Smoked Brisket

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I talk to myself frequently

You should message me if

You want to