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28 F Eugene, OR

My Details

Last Online
Aug 12
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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All that I really want out of life is to be fascinated.

Other than that, I think that I regularly display the following characteristics:

I try to have true gratitude for all of the things, big and small, that I encounter. Having gratitude is the difference between being happy and being unhappy, in my humble opinion.

I have an unending fascination with oddities and curiosities.

I want to have as many varied life experiences as I can with the one life that I have -culturally, sexually, and professionally. There are seriously very few things that I wouldn't try.

I refuse to be jaded and bitter. Men (and women) are not a potential enemy to treat with caution. The world is jaded enough against itself. I will not contribute to that.

I need to avoid boredom at all costs. Luckily, I'm pretty easily amused.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a university student. Post-graduation I plan on making a career in PR. Some point after that I would like to go to graduate school.

Also noteworthy - I don't require that all of my relationships be kink-based, that would be too limiting. But I do require that I am not judged for my participation in the BDSM community.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring people out and checking my baggage at the door.

I like to think that I can maintain an even-tempered perspective in the most unpleasant of life's situations. It's pretty hard to hurt my feelings or make me mad. I consider this to be a great asset, as drama pointlessly sucks the energy out of so many people. Not me :)

I'm also quite talented at training dogs, and applying eye-liner with one hand.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I hope that people first notice that I am smart and competent.

But who are we kidding? It's probably the chest.

Come for the bosom, stay for the brains :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Things I <3

Movies: sci-fi and independent
Favs: Thank You for Smoking, Perfume: Story of a Murderer, Serenity, John Carter, Spirited Away

Books: Non-fic and classics
Favs: The Naked Ape, Pride and Prejudice, The Moon is a Harsh Mistress, All Neil Gaiman, All HP Lovecraft

Shows: Star Trek, Walking Dead, Big Bang Theory, Firefly, Law & Order: SVU

Music: Industrial, Goth and whatever else
Favs: Rammstein, Pink Martini, Angelspit, Combichrist, Switchblade Symphony, Dresden Dolls

Food: Mediterranean and Indian
Favs: Baba Ganoush, Chicken Makhani
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.

1. Smart phone
2. Vibrator
3. Earl Grey tea
4. Mi Familia

Well I guess there are only four things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Getting a grown-up job after I graduate.

How to momentarily brighten the day of people that I like.

What's my next antic to keep myself amused.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends. Who I mean by "friends," and what I mean by "out" can vary widely from week to week. Nevertheless, I am usually just trying to find a way to enjoy my Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If love happens, it happens. It's not a goal.

In the mean time, I just want to spend time with people that I enjoy spending time with.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You are weird in an awesome sort of way or
You are kinkier than a cheap hose or
Your friends think you are hilarious or
You own a shrunken head or
You are particularly interested in knowing more about me.