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MerReed

32 / M / Straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

His Details

Last Online
May 21
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I could be variously described as a committed dilettante, a midwestern transplant, cat dad, kind of an embarrassing clothes whore, a taker of trips, and talker to random people on the subways. I try not to take myself too seriously, but sometimes I do anyway. i make things up for a living.
What I’m doing with my life
Selling the kinds of drugs that don't sell themselves. Learning spanish. Surfing and traveling. attempting to amend the constitution. Seriously. It's just gotta happen.
I’m really good at
creative direction. composing half thoughts. feeling outraged, just outraged! curating my apartment.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Didion, Roth, Nabokov, Murakami, Woolf, Elliot, Kurosawa, Anderson (PT and Wes), LCD, Arcade Fire, Stones before beatles, velvet underground, belle and sebastian, flying burrito brothers, Frank Black, female vocalists, billy bragg, brian eno, nirvana, Rome, True Blood, Deadwood, Boardwalk, let me abbreviate this and say pretty much all HBO, Planet Earth, PBS, NPR, and other random nature/how stuff works stuff. i like almost all food except pickled japanese vegetables. and bugs. but maybe i just haven't had the right kind.
The six things I could never do without
The ocean, talking about things i read in the new yorker, premarital sex, dead flowers, my cat, music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The problems i see in the world; unprecedented ecological and economic barriers that we're just starting to bump our heads against. How to break out of my own orbit and participate in the answers, if there are any. How to be more present, more kind, and more even. Man, that sounds like a load of shit..
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You're comfortable talking to strangers; touring Brooklyn on a Vespa sounds like fun to you; you are no stranger to the pleasure of wine and HBO on Sundays.