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49 F Wake Forest, NC

My Details

Last Online
Apr 15
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
When did finding love become so difficult?? I am looking for this thing that is very hard to find~chemistry. That unexplainable thing that happens between two people almost immediately. I am not sure how it works but it doesn't happen very often and when it does, you just know it. My friends say I'm "picky" but that's not it, I am just waiting for that "spark." I have been divorced for over 13 years, have had a few serious relationships but have been single for the past 5 years and am ready to find someone to spend time with. I don't need anyone to take care of me, been doing that for some time now. Not looking to get married either but definitely am ready to find that one person. Not a fan of chatting or texting, you can do that for months without getting to know someone. I am a believer of meeting in person to see if there is chemistry.

Originally from upstate NY and relocated here over 18 years ago~love it and have never looked back. I am a positive person, have been through some tough times and learned to see the upside to all things, no matter what. Life is hard at times but that which doesn't kill us makes us stronger. My motto I live by. Life is way too short to sweat the small stuff. I am not into material things. I don't care what kind of car you drive or how big your house is. I care about the type of person you are. I am a very active person and walk/hike 4 miles everyday.

I am looking for a man has a great sense of humor, who is attractive inside and out, who is active and loves to get out and do things. I am very simple, easy going, low maintenance and laid back. Not your typical girl, I hate shopping and love sports. I am a huge Duke Blue Devils fan.

I enjoy boating and the water-whether it be the lake, ocean, or a pool. I love going to the beach-my favorite place in the world. I get to the beach on a regular basis. If I'm not at the beach, then you will find me by my pool or at the lake. I am not a serious person at all, I love to laugh. So sense of humor is a must. I enjoy going to sporting events, concerts, live music, or just meeting friends out for drinks. But I also enjoy staying home. I have a healthy balance between the two and expect that from someone I am dating. Please no bar flies or party guys need apply~been there done that.
What I’m doing with my life
I am raising 3 beautiful girls on my own, ages 16, 18, & 20. My oldest is a Jr. at UNCG, my middle daughter is a freshman at Wake Tech, and my youngest is a Sophomore in HS. So that leaves me home alone on the week~ends for the most part.

I work full time from home which allows a tremendous amount of flexibility with my schedule, and that is great!
I’m really good at
Listening~I'm a psychology major, what can I say? :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to laugh so comedies are what I watch the most of.
The six things I could never do without
My Girls
Sunny Days @ Beach/Lake/Pool
My treadmill/long walks outside
Lip gloss/blistex
On a typical Friday night I am
Home or out with friends for drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is my addiction to lip gloss/blistex~started while I was in college and here I am almost 30 years later.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 43–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You love the outdoors, like getting out & staying active, week~end trips to the beach, and love to laugh.